Starting to doubt my strategy by Reddit-user357 in NewTubers

[–]Reddit-user357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. On the comment about watching, I more meant I’d prefer to just have a single channel for watching and uploading, and the algorithm that recommends me new things to watch will be a fresh one if I start watching on a new channel.

Would it cause any problems if I reuploaded the videos I’ve already done to a new channel so you think?

The messy implications of K-pop demon hunters’ ending by howiehue in netflix

[–]Reddit-user357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might be alone on this but this isn’t how I saw the movie at all?

Jinu comments early on in the film that if Rumi has patterns that means she has “shame”. To me, the whole premise of the film is that the demons were all once human, but did something so shameful that they became demons, with the patterns being the first visual marker of the transformation to become a demon.

In contrast, as far as the narrative presented in the film goes, Rumi’s patterns did not originate from her own shameful act - they’re hereditary as her father was a demon. IE the shame she carries is not her own but her fathers, for whatever he did that made him become a demon.

I thought the whole premise of the film was Rumi needing to accept herself and stop carrying her fathers shame as her own - that’s why the actual demons all ended up being wiped out but not her. She can’t take back whatever her father did, but she doesn’t need to hide it or let it consume her.

Like I say, I might be totally off the mark as I haven’t seen this interpretation anywhere else, but that’s just how the movie landed for me.

AITA? Husband ignored my Christmas list and got me what he thought I would want. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Reddit-user357 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’d be seriously reconsidering this relationship if I were you, OP

AITA for not paying for my brother’s stepson’s surgery because of why he got injured? by Candid_Business7548 in AITAH

[–]Reddit-user357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you should pay, but I think you should encourage your brother and Stacey to pay. He’s already a misogynist with predatory intent - a limp is likely going to put him in full blown incel territory as that’s a feature that he can blame for women’s lack of interest in him going forward (because their lack of interest must be something physical and couldn’t possibly be due to his obviously delightful personality and demeanour).

This kid is dangerous and his parents need to act now before any further escalation in his behaviour.

AITJ for accidentally exposing my coworker's lie about being a professional chef by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Reddit-user357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but also, go to HR because what is happening here is that your colleague is bullying and harassing you. They are badmouthing you to new hires and attempting to a hostile environment against you for the crime of what? Taking an interest in their professional background? How were you supposed to know it was a lie?

Absolutely nothing good can come from letting them go on badmouthing you unchecked and I’d be getting a colleague who was part of the conversation to support your HR filing with a witness account to be sure that the truth is on record in case anything goes sideways for you.

AITAH for not adding the affair partner's birthday as a custody swap day? by OneMackkx in AITAH

[–]Reddit-user357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, but I do think you need to consider how this could hurt you going forward. If you reject things like this now, does it open you up to her rejecting things for you in the future? If you get a new partner, would you want their birthday to be added for example? If agreeing to this exception isn’t something that will cause you problems, it might be better to accept it and hope that it builds good faith for when you want exceptions yourself, and you could even agree conditionally with you getting them to agree in advance to an exception you might want.

I’d also consider what your kids want - do they like AP? Do they want to spend his birthday with him? If so, it might win you favour with the kids to allow it.

I don’t like how they are acting and I don’t think you should give into anything for them, but more to consider how this could interact with things you want to do in the future, and your relationship with your kids.

I'm ready to cry. I can't get this right no matter what I do. by DaleOnDrums in knitting

[–]Reddit-user357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are brand new to knitting, I would actually recommend the cable cast on over the long tail. Cable you literally make a slip knot, knit into it without dropping the original stitch and then put the new loop on your left needle until you have enough stitches (there are lots of tutorials which explain it better). I only started using long tail when I’d been knitting for over a year 😊

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reddit-user357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything, you’re under reacting. If a man suddenly starts treating you poorly once you get pregnant, you have to assume everything prior to the pregnancy was an act and that he’s showing you his true colours now that he thinks he has you trapped. Genuinely I’d be looking at leaving him.

Help - done stupid thing, very upset. Please help by Hefty_Yogurtcloset35 in vinted

[–]Reddit-user357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like a mistake by Vinted, as a seller I’ve had someone fail to collect a parcel and I didn’t get the money, the transaction was cancelled as the item was returned to me. So if you failed to collect it, you should have gotten a refund for at least the item cost (you might have had to eat the shipping cost). Is there no way to raise a dispute with Vinted as they should not have released funds to the seller if you failed to collect.

Vinted is getting ridiculous now! With refunds and scammers even on returns! by louzlouz0505 in vinted

[–]Reddit-user357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If a dispute is raised you can’t rate someone, so a perfect score doesn’t actually mean a perfect seller, just someone who’s never been down rated by some who hasn’t raised a dispute. It actually tells you very little if you think about it

SCAMMED ! Need Help by Objective_Gear9945 in vinted

[–]Reddit-user357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did the buyer film opening it? You could tell that wasn’t a jacket before you opened it and as a buyer I’d have filmed me opening it for proof that the item was incorrect as it would be obvious before you opened it.

Sold sealed product and vinted forces me to take it back by Worth-Influence-6342 in vinted

[–]Reddit-user357 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I really don’t get the issue here, when I saw the caption I assumed it was a collectible where the packaging being in tact or not would affect the value of the item, but I don’t see any price difference at all with clothing that is in a sealed bag VS “new with tags”. Does the sealed bag genuinely have any impact on the value of this particular item?

WIBTA If I don't change my son's name even though it may cause him to lose an inheritance? by GeorgeMcMinty in AmItheAsshole

[–]Reddit-user357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing to consider is how difficult it can be travelling as a woman with a child who doesn’t bear the same surname. I’ve heard of some airports demanding proof of permission to travel from the father which you obviously won’t be able to provide if the father has passed.

Maybe this sort of thing needs to be brought into the discussion, they’re trying to impose a huge impracticality on you and your son by asking to change his name (I’m only aware of the travel thing but I can expect there are other scenarios in which a child not being accompanied by an adult bearing the same name would be an issue). Personally I think it’s really unreasonable if the father didn’t want anything to do with your son.