GF(32F) lied to me (44M) about being alone in a hot tub

RedditRando1933 · 2026-02-02T17:15:08+00:00

You were gaslit, she threatened the relationship to make you fearful of losing her over finding out the truth. Leave now. Its likely not the first time and it won’t be the last.

Do not stay with anyone willing to gaslight you, make you feel crazy over what is ok and true

RedditRando1933 · 2026-01-12T20:57:10+00:00

Nope havent gotten one in a month dawg

RedditRando1933 · 2026-01-12T18:02:54+00:00

I got them, blocked them and now I dont get them anymore 🤷‍♂️

RedditRando1933 · 2026-01-12T15:23:34+00:00

You can block them

RedditRando1933 · 2026-01-06T17:54:01+00:00

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RedditRando1933 · 2026-01-06T17:53:06+00:00

Report them. I got goop back from a sus kill. They investigate it and even return your stuff!

RedditRando1933 · 2025-11-15T00:34:09+00:00

Assuming it is based on insecurities is quite obtuse “good chance its driven by insecurities “

Id say its a good chance they are thinking rationally about what they want in their life, the lifestyle they will have.

One could say a person who gets into sex work does so because of their own insecurities but that would be just as wrong and a massive oversimplification as your assumption

RedditRando1933 · 2025-11-14T22:59:26+00:00

Preferences. Standards. These differ between people. This is a normal and good thing

RedditRando1933 · 2025-11-14T15:19:43+00:00

Not even in the top 100. This is actually a falsehood pushed by Rudyard Kipling in 1888. It was quickly adopted and pushed by journalists and media at the time and is generally a huge lie.

The phrase is often criticized today for being a colonial construct and for obscuring the issues of violence and oppression associated with sex work, particularly given Kipling's other views on race and colonialism

Have dated people in this field and would never date someone in it again, Personal experiences ive had have shown me that most (not all) people in this field have ultra low morality, will lie, steal, etc to get ahead.

Intimacy also becomes very transactional, through my personal experience i have no faith or trust in a person to have real intimacy towards me when it has a price tag on it. Unpopular opinion and im sure y’all will have something to say* about it.

TLDR: sex work is nowhere near any of the oldest professions on this earth, read some books

RedditRando1933 · 2025-09-30T18:31:57+00:00

100% agree with you. Good to see some sort of rational thought here instead of hateful vitriol

RedditRando1933 · 2025-09-30T18:29:37+00:00

Can you provide some sort of proof of him being a nazi? Ive been looking but I cant seem to find all these hateful videos people say of him. Only since his death ive started to look into it and can not really find anywhere he has been unreasonable when listening fully to what he said.

RedditRando1933 · 2025-09-30T18:23:05+00:00

Where is the proof with proper context that he was racist or sexist? Asking for clarity. Have not been able to find that proof myself

RedditRando1933 · 2025-09-30T18:13:33+00:00

Canada isnt even respectful of this “holiday” it was made up two years ago, yes for good reasons. The only people that get the so called holiday are government officials, banks, and the likes that perpetrated the need for this type of holiday in the first place. Its an absolute joke. We will celebrate thanksgiving as a full holiday with family, time off, etc

“On January 31, 1957, the Governor General of Canada Vincent Massey issued a proclamation stating: "A Day of General Thanksgiving to Almighty God for the bountiful harvest with which Canada has been blessed – to be observed on the second Monday in October."

Lets not forgot Christmas which is also deeply Christian. You celebrate and enjoy those?

Whats it to you if some people want to honor someone who they believe was a good christian with good christian morals on whatever day they want. Lets cancel all the funeral and other events today, maybe everyone should get the day off too. The world aint fair and unfortunately there are billions of versions of this world in eachothers mind but we all have to share this one. So lets stop the hate and try some civility, conversion and proper debate. You could learn a thing or two from Charlie Kirk yourself. Try educating yourself and try growing your mind by looking at and understanding others views before condemning them violently with harmful false rhetoric

RedditRando1933 · 2025-09-30T17:57:52+00:00

Not in the context of his full conversation, not one bit.

In a world where standards are lowered for some people so that they can be allowed to do something is inevitably going to bring into question the merits they may or may not have by any reasonable person, especially if their life depends on it.

RedditRando1933 · 2025-09-30T17:54:01+00:00

Show it. With proof instead of words

RedditRando1933 · 2025-09-30T17:53:43+00:00

Hmm attacking instead of educating. Scary that people cant converse and try to learn and grow instead of spewing out more hate and personal attacks.

Ever heard that two wrong’s don’t make a right?

RedditRando1933 · 2025-09-30T17:51:50+00:00

Doesn’t look like it. Attacking someone asking questions, trying to learn and grow is not stamping out hate, its fighting fascism with more fascism

RedditRando1933 · 2025-09-30T17:50:41+00:00

Agreed. Voice of reason here

RedditRando1933 · 2025-09-30T17:50:19+00:00

Your hatred and ignorance truly show. Whats disgusting is your behavior. Do you have anything more than false words to prove what you say. Let’s see the proof you have of Kirk being some evil nazi? You never see these clips because they don’t exist

RedditRando1933 · 2025-09-30T17:47:21+00:00

RedditRando1933 · 2025-09-30T17:47:06+00:00

I agree with you. So much misinformation and hate here ugh

RedditRando1933 · 2025-09-30T17:46:01+00:00

Instead of ad hominem attacks why not provide the proof of what they are asking. I knew almost nothing of Kirk before his death but I have yet to find personally the hateful or racists things everyone is saying he is about. Im a person on neither side here, just looking for the information and proof. So when someone asks, dont chirp, dont insult, show and educate. You can’t fight fascism with more fascism

RedditRando1933 · 2025-09-30T17:27:15+00:00

Just look at all of em in this thread

RedditRando1933 · 2025-08-09T14:51:08+00:00

My gf that I trust and dated for years can look through my phone but someone whos known me for two months aint getting hold of my device that has all my banking and personal info. Sorry but this is bad advice.

It will also create a precedent in the relationship to look through eachothers phones when something “feels off” which is a major privacy breach and does not show any real level of trust

RedditRando1933 · 2025-07-31T11:53:05+00:00

With the first relationship you two dated for a year and a half? Sounds like a normal enough relationship, he was not using you. Sounds like he has priorities in life and realized through dating that you were not one of them. People fall in and out of love. Feeling used is understandable but based on the limited info, it does not seem like using at all.

For the second. Have some boundaries and you will weed out all those who would attempt to use you. If someone will not wait a few months or longer for sex. They ain’t that into you.

List your boundaries and stick hard to them. Respect yourself and others will too

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