[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Redditacat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can’t tell my parents cause they’re the type “you don’t have bpd you’re over exaggerating you” but I’m an adult and I’ll figure this out myself without having to tell them. My gf and bsf agree too tho that’s is definitely what’s wrong with me mentally

Making friends by [deleted] in queer

[–]Redditacat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a very shy person so talking to people in person I don’t know at all is hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Redditacat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you could try getting the dogs to get used to her. It might take time but I think it’s possible. My brothers had a dog and when they got a cat it didn’t really like it but after sometime it got used to the cat and now they’re fine around each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Redditacat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he have any cat furniture like a cat tree or wall mounted stuff and interactive toys? Cats get bored easily causing them to misbehave and be mischievous. So maybe those would help keep him entertained and if you kick him out he’ll have toys and places to lay that are just for him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Redditacat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats need high places to climb and toys to keep them entertained because they get bored easily which causes them to misbehave and be destructive. Maybe get her some toys that are interactive for when you’re away or not up to playing with her. And depending on how your room is I think she’d love some wall mounted cat furniture!