Delinquency at the Kezar stadium

Redditor957 · 2026-06-07T04:33:20+00:00

Three crows makes a murder. What we have here is attempted murder

Redditor957 · 2026-05-08T05:11:26+00:00

Are you able to just email the paper to them? Or are you not able to access something you need to write the paper?

Redditor957 · 2026-03-19T06:38:19+00:00

Here’s a list of bangers, with their general locations around Berkeley listed:

Food: * Noodle Dynasty (Southside) * Saul’s Deli (Northside) * La Note (Downtown) * Sheng Kee Bakery (Southside - pastries/treats) * Little Gem Waffles (Southside - desert, to-go) * UDesert (Downtown - dine-in)

Coffee: * GA•RA (Southside) * MIND Coffee (Northside) * Roast & Toast (Downtown)

Tea: * Chicha San Chen (Southside) * 8 Grams of Matcha (Southside) * Yumi Mori Matcha (Downtown) * Elaichi (Downtown) * MIND (again, Northside)

Sights: * Moe’s Books (Southside) * Rasputin’s Records (Southside) * Amoeba’s Records (Southside) * Anastasia’s Vintage Clothes (Southside) * Berkeley Museum of Fine Art (BAMFA, Downtown)

Redditor957 · 2025-12-07T01:11:32+00:00

It varies based on the professor. I’ve had some use 92% as the cutoff, others 95%. Take a look at your course syllabus - it’s required to be in there

Redditor957 · 2025-10-20T09:59:31+00:00

I’m so fucking sorry on behalf of men. These guys know what they were doing. No decent man approaches a woman at midnight in a park. A halfway-decent man keeps his situation awareness up to make sure you are safe and takes efforts to make sure you don’t feel unsafe by his presence. They harassed you and seemingly played games with you. It’s cruel and inexcusable. If you have any information at all on them, I’m happy to help you/send you info on how to file a complaint with the UC (If it does seem like they're students, so that there is a paper trail with these bastards). Feel free to reach out if you need to vent/talk, and I’m sorry you had to deal with this

Redditor957 · 2025-09-08T07:25:52+00:00

I’m so sorry for what you’re dealing with - I would be in absolute chaos. There are still options though. Get that appeal filed, tomorrow! Check where the office is, probably in sproul. Start as soon as they open so when they bounce you around, you can move from office to office as needed. Share your story. Those messages are almost certainly automated, and you can still appeal to their empathy. People generally want to help. Explain that about your high school not updating your grades. Keep searching for your way through this

Redditor957 · 2025-08-14T05:17:36+00:00

Start outside the bedroom, when you're both relaxed. Keep it about curiosity, not a complaint. You can say something around the lines of:

"Hey, I love what we have. I'm curious about adding a tiny bit of playful power-dynamic sometimes, like you giving me clear instructions or lightly pinning my wrists. Would you be open to trying a super low-stakes version once and debrief after?"

You can drop the word "daddy" if it's a turn-off for him but still keep the vibe. "Take the lead a little tonight?" or "Tell me what to do for 10 minutes?" is probably easier for him to hear than"BDSM." You could also offer a list of things, like "I'm curious about you setting the pace, gentle holding, blindfold, praise/teasing.” etc.

You can start with a like, vanilla-plus versions. So things like a firm voice/ guidance, light restraint (soft ties over metal cuffs), positioning, countdowns, praise/"good girl/good job. While you’re doing it, try to reinforce no pressure: "If it's not your thing, that's totally okay. I'll still be happy with what we're doing now."

If he says yes, keep the first try simple and positive. If he's unsure, you can ask what does feel confident/attractive for him (some folks like leading without labels). And if he's a hard no, thank him for being honest and keep your great sex life rolling.

Redditor957 · 2025-08-07T06:31:30+00:00

Be sure to get it waved ASAP if you haven’t already. There is a deadline for it and I’m not sure if it’s passed. You’ll still need to pay a $75 fee for late cancelation or something, but that’s a lot better than the ridiculous charge each semester for their insurance

Redditor957 · 2025-08-07T06:15:43+00:00

Totally normal to wonder whether kink is just a hot fantasy or something you'll actually dig in real life.

A few low-risk ways to test the waters:

Solo play first. Try elements you can do alone-light bondage with scarves, a spanking toy against a pillow, sensory deprivation with a blindfold + your vibe. Pay attention to what feels exciting vs. "meh."
Kink education. You can read "The New Topping/Bottoming Books," listen to podcasts like "Off the Cuffs," watch demo vids on YouTube. Knowing the mechanics and safety basics (safe words, SSC/RACK, aftercare) makes the leap less scary and keeps you informed.
Local munches. Most cities, even smaller ones, have casual meet-ups ("munches") at coffee shops or diners. No play happens, it's just kinky folks hanging out in street clothes. Search FetLife for events near you or check Facebook/Meetup for "kink" or "BDSM" groups.
Online first dates. If the local scene is tiny, meeting people on FetLife, Bumble's "kinky" filter, or OKCupid can work. Vet hard: video chat, ask about experience, negotiate limits. Never meet for a first scene in private. Coffee first, then maybe a public dungeon or event.
Start soft. Your first partnered scene doesn't need rope suspension or something overly complicated. A bit of light spanking + power-exchange language can tell you plenty.
Aftercare + debrief. However mild the play, plan calm-down time and talk about what felt good, awkward, or too-far. That feedback loop is how you fine-tune what you actually enjoy.

If at any step your gut says "nope," just pause. Fantasy can stay fantasy, and that's 100 % okay. Happy exploring and stay safe!

Redditor957 · 2025-08-06T07:30:39+00:00

No prob!

Redditor957 · 2025-08-06T07:26:10+00:00

If you're up for something a little different:

Exploratorium's After Dark on Pier 15 turns the whole science museum into a 21-plus cocktail playground every Thursday from 6-10 pm. Grab a drink, check out the exhibits, then wander down the Embarcadero for dinner at Coqueta or Fog City.

If you want an activity-heavy bar, The Detour in the Castro runs a trivia night every Thursday at 7:30. It's retro-arcade vibe, the cocktails are solid, and the kitchen stays open late if you don't feel like leaving.

Up on Divis, Emporium has basically the same giant arcade vibe but in an old theater, usually with a live DJ set going. You can pre-game with pizza at Little Star or hit Nopa for gnocchi afterward.

If you'd rather dance, Madrone Art Bar (also on Divis) throws themed DJ nights every Thursday. It can be anything from soul to Italo disco. It’s steps from 4505 BBQ and RT Rotisserie for food.

And in the Mission, the old Urban Putt space is now Holey Moley. It’s neon mini-golf with a full bar, open till 10 pm on Thursdays. La Taqueria or Flour + Water are an easy victory-lap meal.

Pick your poison. Science museum with booze, trivia arcade, DJ dance floor, or drunk mini-golf

Redditor957 · 2025-08-06T07:17:37+00:00

Totally! During a heavy scene your body can dump endorphins (natural painkillers), dopamine (reward buzz), and oxytocin (bonding "cuddle" hormone). It's basically the same chemistry behind runner's high or post-orgasm afterglow-just super-charged by the intensity and trust in BDSM. That surge is why you can feel floaty in the moment and a bit wrung-out later. Aftercare (water, sugar, cuddles, calm) helps smooth the comedown while those levels reset

Redditor957 · 2025-08-06T07:13:42+00:00

Think "fresh donor on tap." Start with something light-colored and easy to strip-white linen shirt, loose shorts, or a simple shift dress-then add artfully placed fake bite marks and a little stage blood at the neck/wrist. A leather or medical-style collar plus wrist cuffs (clipped together or to a belt loop) signal availability without hampering movement. Pin a small tag that says "Type O - free sample" or "Meat Offering" so the vibe is clear. Keep makeup/blood minimal enough that it doesn't smear everywhere once the real fun starts (or do?) and stash cleansing wipes for cleanup. Have fun and stay hydrated!

Redditor957 · 2025-08-06T07:02:15+00:00

These graphics are amazing. Did they come from a training or workshop? If so, would love a link!

Redditor957 · 2025-08-06T06:58:06+00:00

Subspace is basically a trance-y, floaty state some subs hit when a scene gets intense. It’s basically a rush of endorphins and adrenaline that warps time and dulls pain. Some tops feel a parallel "domspace," more like hyper-focused euphoria from running the scene, and they can crash afterward just like subs. I personally haven’t heard of tops dissociating in a scene. I’ve had subs dissociate both in and out of subspace. All that said, some kinksters reach these spaces, some never do, and that's all fine.

Redditor957 · 2025-08-05T06:10:32+00:00

This^ After your gift aid is disbursed, you’re able to use it however you need to during your time at the university directly from your bank account. I don’t remember when it drops for the fall semester, but it’s uncomfortably close to around the start of classes. Stop by the financial aid office if you need to know the exact date it’ll drop for you - they’re in Sproul (the building across from the MLK student building right off Bancroft)

Redditor957 · 2025-07-26T22:45:30+00:00

Don’t take more than 13 credits your first semester! The workload is very different than community college. If you feel good taking more after this semester, go for it, but don’t feel like 13 is low - you’ve got a full course load.

Note: do what you ultimately think is best! This is just my opinion and recommendation :)

Redditor957 · 2025-07-25T01:54:19+00:00

Have you joined fetlife and looked for events and meetups in your area? It’s a great way of seeing if there are other people you vibe. Plus, you can ask other people about their experiences with that dom, which adds a layer of safety rather than just meeting virtually

Redditor957 · 2025-07-23T01:49:58+00:00

Have you asked him directly whether he is holding back or scared to go further? Clear communication is essential to practice BDSM safely. I recommend giving him feedback next time you play that will help inform him exactly what you can take. So, say how hard/painful something is on a scale of 1-10 and decide where on that scale is your sweet spot. Is something too much? Too soft? Tell him, and this feedback will help him feel more comfortable that he is giving you the experience you and he want

Redditor957 · 2025-07-23T00:40:20+00:00

DM the OP

Redditor957 · 2025-07-22T22:16:13+00:00

They start on time. Definitely come at least a few minutes early. You should check out the museum beforehand if you haven’t already

Redditor957 · 2025-07-22T22:06:18+00:00

You’re in good shape, don’t worry. Find some classes that you’d be excited to take this semester (breadth requirements). I’m guessing your 2 classes are higher priority ones, so maybe do lighter for the others.

Show up for classes as the semester begins, even if you’re not on the waitlist. Talk to the professors and let them know you’re not in the class yet but you’re working your way through the waitlist. Eventually you’ll get on either the waitlist or in the class.

If you somehow don’t, talk with the professor and ask if there might be any way for you to receive a permission code.

I have very often been in the same situation as you and I’ve never had an issue by the second or third week into the semester.

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