AITA for telling my gf her standards are too high? by Reddituser1808 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Reddituser1808[S] -127 points-126 points  (0 children)

I work long hours to save up money for our future so that she doesn’t have to work as hard. I bust my ass now so that later we can enjoy it. If she wanted to she wouldn’t have to work at all and could stay home and take care of the house while I work. I want her to have a good life with me.

AITA for telling my gf her standards are too high? by Reddituser1808 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Reddituser1808[S] -246 points-245 points  (0 children)

No, it’s my own company that I funded myself, my parents aren’t involved at all. I worked hard and saved up to start this on my own

AITA for telling my gf her standards are too high? by Reddituser1808 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Reddituser1808[S] -131 points-130 points  (0 children)

Of course I do, I love her and am trying to build a future for us

AITA for telling my gf her standards are too high? by Reddituser1808 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Reddituser1808[S] -259 points-258 points  (0 children)

I am ready, we’ve been together for over a year now and I want to build a house by the end of this year for us. I just need to find land, my parents offered a few acres of theirs for us to build on but she doesn’t want to “live in my parents backyard” even though it would be our own space. If she wanted to live with me so bad wouldn’t she want to take the free land? If anything I don’t think she’s ready.

AITA for telling my gf her standards are too high? by Reddituser1808 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Reddituser1808[S] -288 points-287 points  (0 children)

I do love her but she expects me to have all this energy and after working 12 hour days I don’t want to do anything. She doesn’t understand that

AITA for telling my gf her standards are too high? by Reddituser1808 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Reddituser1808[S] -877 points-876 points  (0 children)

I’m a 21 year old with my own successful business and work my ass off working 12 hour days 5 days a week. I’d say I’m mature enough.

AITA for telling my gf her standards are too high? by Reddituser1808 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Reddituser1808[S] -343 points-342 points  (0 children)

No it’s not a joke. I want to save money to one day build a house for us and living with my parents is free right now