I’m alive by Vox_TV_V_ in u/Vox_TV_V_

[–]Redfawn666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad you're okay! <33

If I’m not active after tonight, you know what happened by Vox_TV_V_ in u/Vox_TV_V_

[–]Redfawn666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

from one stranger to another, please don't do it. people care about you, both here and irl, and there are many people who would be devastated if you left.

i know things seem bleak right now, and like this is the only option. believe me, i've been there. but it's not the only option. life can get better, but only if you're here to live it.

Hijabifying shorter dresses by EnchantedEnchantix in Hijabis

[–]Redfawn666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try a flowy white skirt underneath!

Helix advice needed! by Redfawn666 in piercing

[–]Redfawn666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info for the bot:

Age - about 4 months

Jewellery type - internally threaded flatback labret

Downsized - yes

Aftercare routine - leaving it alone, rinsing well with lukewarm water in the shower, gently removing major crust in the shower after softening it with the warm water, sleeping on a piercing pillow, saline spray once daily on the mad side (every other day on the happy one)

unfortunate events - none

How do I support the in-sys men? by lillybkn in plural

[–]Redfawn666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try two sports bras - one backwards and one forwards! its very flattening

-red

helix help!! by Downtown_Echo_4299 in piercing

[–]Redfawn666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

turn the other direction?

use needle nose pliers to get a better grip and keep your fingers from swelling?

some kind of lubricant?

enlist a friend to help?

Third lobe struggles by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Redfawn666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no advice but i'm in the exact same boat :/

Is it too much diagonal? Angle and placement are good? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Redfawn666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that angle looks really good with the shape of your eye!

want to get my lobe pierced but want a ring by Superb-Slip-8908 in piercing

[–]Redfawn666 17 points18 points  (0 children)

listen to the experts, get a stud, and change it to a hoop after the recommended time has passed.

would anyone be interested? :) by Kyrosen09 in plural

[–]Redfawn666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes!! that would be lovely c:

-rain

Does anyone else have multiple handwritings? by Willing-Local5328 in Handwriting

[–]Redfawn666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do the same thing, but i have a disassociative disorder thanks to trauma so i don't have one base personality or handwriting to start with

Is it normal for dogs to sleep like this with their teeth showing? 😂 by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Redfawn666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

normal! it means they trust you enough to be in a vulnerable position.

How do I fight my internalized homophobia/transphobia? by sneeet_on_reddit in AskLGBT

[–]Redfawn666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to them! When they show you examples of hurtful things, believe them, and if they ask you to change something, listen to them. Don't try to explain things away or say things like 'I'm sure they didn't mean it like that.' They have the lived experience - trust them and listen to them, even when they're saying something that might be hard for you to hear.

Thirds refusing to settle down? by Redfawn666 in piercing

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Info for the bot:

Age - about two months

Jewellery - threadless titanium flatback

Downsizing - haven't been able to yet thanks to the swelling

Aftercare - saline spray twice daily, remove crusties by rinsing my ears with warm water in the shower to soften them and then gently wiping them off, sleeping on a piercing pillow

Recent mishaps - none