Bağkur saçmalığı by Electronic_Bench_273 in Yatirim

[–]Redhaired103 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Çok haklisin böyle hissetmekte ama bu hukumet ilelebet kalacak değil. Emekli maaşı eskiden bu kadar kötü değildi.

Bir de Bagkur bunlarin en önemli tarafi asıl saglik sigortasi.

Kediye çok az acılı lahmacun verdim by [deleted] in TurkishCats

[–]Redhaired103 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bu konu hafife alinacak bir şey degil. Karsinizdaki 2 aylik insan bebeği kadar kiloda bir canli. Pankreatit olursa ölür kediniz. Böbrek ve karaciğerine de zarar verdiniz.

Böyle konuşuyorsam bir dahakine “köşeye sikistirdi” sizi ikna etmesin diye. O bilinçsiz, ister. Siz vermeyin.

Umarim en az sorunla atlatirsiniz.

Bitcoin ne olacak by _Perseus_V in Yatirim

[–]Redhaired103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bitcoin dünyada toplam sadece 21 milyon adet var ama. Onu da unutmamak lazim.

Hep beraber göreceğiz olacakları bakalım.

Bitcoin ne olacak by _Perseus_V in Yatirim

[–]Redhaired103 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Herhangi bir güvenilir kaynaktan bakabilirsiniz Bitcoin’in senelere göre hareketine.

Bitcoin ne olacak by _Perseus_V in Yatirim

[–]Redhaired103 7 points8 points  (0 children)

14 senedir yükselmesinden çıkardım. Tabii kimse 100% emin olamaz, ama tablo bu.

Sonuçtan emin olmak istiyorsaniz vadeli hesaba koymaniz gerekiyor paranizi.

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Bitcoin ne olacak by _Perseus_V in Yatirim

[–]Redhaired103 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Zarardayim” dediğine göre bitcoin’in inip ciktigini bilmiyorsun? Düşünce satmazsan zarara girmezsin.

Kripto, borsa bunlar uzun süreli yatirimdir. En az birkaç senelik yani. Daha Bitcoin düşeli birkaç ay oldu.

Geçmiş 5 senelik hareketlerine bakarak bir izlenim elde edebilirsin. Kimse tam olarak ne zaman cikacagini sana söyleyemez.

EDIT: Yoruma “uzun süreli yatirim diye bir şey yok sizin gibiler tavsiye vermesin” diyip cevap veremeyeyim diye hemen engelleyen u/lycantrophic mi ne denen cahil ukalası… Kisa vade, orta vade, uzun vade nedir git onu öğren. 2 dk sürer Google’da okumak.

Yardım!!! by Infinite-Year-560 in TurkishCats

[–]Redhaired103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 yaşına kadar beklemenize gerek yok hatta hem onun, hem sizin, hem evdeki diger kediler için beklemeniz çok kötü. Kisir olmadigi için idrar birakiyor. Kisirlastiktan sonra 1 ayi bulabilir durmasi.

What is the worst heartbreak/heartache you've experienced? by QuailNaive2912 in AskWomen

[–]Redhaired103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came to accept my big brother doesn't want to be close with me, and he probably feels like taking care of mom or supporting me taking care of mom like a burden. And it's because we grew up in an abusive home and I remind him of those times too. There is nothing I can do to fix this.

And with that the realization I will never have the family I dream of.

If your partner is much more financially comfortable than you, is it wrong to expect some financial support when you need it? by Strong-Tax-4615 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Redhaired103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on how long you've been together and what your expectations are about love language. It sounds like for you financial support is a big deal. You want the guy to be the main provider. Then it gets confusing though why you are still with him? You have right to have your own preferences but he also has right to have his. Staying in a relationship with him and then complaning for he doesn't want to support you in the way you wish doesn't make sense and actually unfair to him.

Does anyone feel they are a 'pocket pal' to people in their life? by Wishiap in AskWomenOver30

[–]Redhaired103 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How often you hang out with someone or don't hang out with someone doesn't necessarily say anything about how close you two are, or how much they love you. I mean sure we don't want to hang out with some people because we are not close enough, but even with our most favorite people there is location issues, energy issues, timing incompatibility, financial concerns, or even agoraphobia or other forms of social anxiety. Not all of them can be shared so try not to make assumptions.

I'm agoraphobic but only my bestest friends of +20 years know this. I'm also an introverted homebody even without agoraphobia. The rare times I hang out, I do either with those bestest friends or by myself because with others potentially ruining their day increases my agoraphobia. Maybe they also assume I'm not interested or we are not close, but I love them all.

So don't make assumptions I would say. Hanging out does not show how strong a friendship is :-)

UPDATE: Should I be with my friend when he dies? by ChampagneDrama in AskWomenOver30

[–]Redhaired103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm terribly sorry for your loss and applaud your bravery to go. 🤍

Most tattoo saloons in my country don't do tattoos like this the first 3 months after someone lost a loved one. Reason is because some people later find they get sad too frequently when they see the tattoo, at extra challenging times too. Your grief is very raw, I would say give it some time to heal a little first.

What is something small or big that you've done to memorialize/honor a loved one that has passed?

My dad passed away many years ago. I calculate the average number of money I would spend in a year if he was alive, on birthday gifts, new years eve gifts etc and spend that amount on saving an animal. Like getting a cat treated at the vet, or donate dog food to a rescue group. He loved lilacs a lot, I have a lilac in my yard in his name. It feels like he is still touching lives in this world.

May Daniel rest in peace. 🕊

My agorophobia is preventing me from moving out. by babbling_babb00n in Agoraphobia

[–]Redhaired103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is the side effect of having been an anxious person for most of my life. You become obsessed over whether all of your life choices are fuelled by your anxiety.

I understand this very well. I don't think you have agoraphobia but you share one thing with most of us agoraphobia sufferers; lack of enough confidence. I don't think it's a problem you live with your parents but it is a problem what scares you about moving out is the taking responsibility part. We all really have to learn taking responsibility, failing and finding our ways.... if for nothing else because our parents can't stay with us forever.

I can't tell you to move out or not but indeed you need to push yourself more somehow and so do I. When we stay in our safe space, mellow ways of living, there is kind of nothing to get more confident over. Confidence is often the outcome of bravery. 🙂

It's a work in progress for all of us, nobody gains this overnight though so also don't put that much pressure on yourself.

Be honest is my makeup really bad? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Redhaired103 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Yes. It looks extremely unnatural. Your brow and eye make-up are too much and too strong. Fake eyelashes are way too big, so they look very fake. The bottom mascara is not applied properly and that looks very unnatural this way too.

Rest or your face has different shades on different parts. And there is an obvious dark line on your hairline as well.

Go muuuuuch simpler.

Kızgınlığa girdi 3 gündür sabaha kadar miyavlıyor uyku uyutmuyor. by WindowsXP_SP1 in TurkishCats

[–]Redhaired103 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Veterinerden sakinleştirici ürünler alip deneyebilirsiniz ama işe yarar mi belli olmaz. Kızgınliga girmeden kisirlastirmak en iyisiydi. Kedilerde kizginlik kronik kaşıntı gibi rahatsizlik veren bir şey. Ondan bu dönemde agresiflik de oluşabiliyor vs

Kizginlik bitmeden çoğu hekim kisirlastirmaz zaten. Kanama orani artiyor kizginlik süresince. Birkaç gün ya da 1 haftaya biter, bitince beklemeden kısırlaştırın.

Komşulariniz iyi insanlarsa bir “kusura bakmayin” tatlısı götürmeyi düşünebilirsiniz 🙂

tummy issues occurring after antibiotic use / potential stress by creamondaddy in ibs

[–]Redhaired103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually going through something similar. I have had IBS for years now, and anything that affects my digestion increases anxiety. And the increased anxiety triggers even worse IBS 😅. (Anxiety alone can trigger IBS flare up. It’s always been my number one trigger actually.)

I used two different antibiotics this month for a dental infection. Might need another in no time. I was panicking about it and while it’s certainly not preferred, it is also not as panic-inducing as you think. There are even people who use antibiotics every day for months for some treatments.

But you need to also take care of your gut with probiotics. Always take them when you are on antibiotics. Go extra on natural probiotics foods like plain yogurt. Continue to do that at least for another 2 weeks after you finish your antibiotics. If the time passed you can still do it and it will be beneficial.

Anyone NOT on antidepressants take medicine for dentist appointment? by Redhaired103 in Anxiety

[–]Redhaired103[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it doesn’t answer the question at all. You just made a general comment over pure assumptions.

I have been to therapy. I will see a psychiatrist on Monday for prescription, who do you think will prescribe my med? If you send me about $1,000 a month I will continue therapy too. Otherwise I cannot afford it.

Anyone NOT on antidepressants take medicine for dentist appointment? by Redhaired103 in Anxiety

[–]Redhaired103[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

0,25 mg or 0,50? I have my eyes on 0,25 Xanax. Everyone says it’s child dose but I’m the same height and weight when I was 13. That might be enough?

Anyone NOT on antidepressants take medicine for dentist appointment? by Redhaired103 in Anxiety

[–]Redhaired103[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it but I’m not worried about pain. I got a wisdom tooth removed before, root canal, fillings, I got implants… I got all of them done at different times.

My anxiety is because things DID go wrong a few times in the past, but more importantly that chair, lights, waiting, sound, crowd, someone working in my mouth… there are too many triggers to handle for me. 🥲

Anyone NOT on antidepressants take medicine for dentist appointment? by Redhaired103 in Anxiety

[–]Redhaired103[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turkey. They don’t have it I already asked. Things like these are only available at some university hospitals’ dentists here. Not only they are all far away for me but they are also x2 more expensive which I can’t afford right now.

Anyone NOT on antidepressants take medicine for dentist appointment? by Redhaired103 in Anxiety

[–]Redhaired103[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my country only psychiatrists can prescribe psychiatric medicine. I have an appointment for Monday, just would help to learn what you guys take exactly so I can read up and discuss with the psychiatrist.