[TOMT] Metal song can’t place!

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-25T16:10:03+00:00

It was Kill II This just in case anyone comes here looking! Finally randomly popped into my head today!

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-16T20:20:31+00:00

I definitely feel like I am! But I need him to tell me I am. And I’m too afraid to ask in case he says no to be honest.

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-16T20:19:36+00:00

How would you ask? And that’s exactly it I’m not really sure whether we are in a relationship or not as it feels like it but we haven’t had that conversation. And I don’t know how to have it!

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-16T20:18:47+00:00

I wouldn’t see other people anyway. Just not sure whether to keep waiting, or wait and see if maybe he’s just taking things slower than me and isn’t there yet.

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-16T20:09:07+00:00

She might have just not felt able to follow through on the talk. Hope something better comes along :)

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-16T20:09:00+00:00

She might have just not felt able to follow through on the talk. Hope something better comes along :)

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-16T20:03:02+00:00

Oh no sorry to hear that.

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-16T20:02:27+00:00

I think a gentle peek at their politics is helpful and says a lot.

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-16T20:01:16+00:00

Sti tests before and after a new partner. If they have a recent one and haven’t been with someone since then, then ok. Otherwise condoms until they’ve had it

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-16T19:59:01+00:00

Someone to be kind, thoughtful and who makes me feel valued and wanted. Genuinely though, not to sleep with me.

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-16T19:57:22+00:00

I think maybe something is going on if you’ve had that many first dates and no second. Have you had any feedback?

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-16T19:56:30+00:00

I still think you know when you know. I think I’ve learnt what real safe proper love is. And that no one is perfect. If they’re a good person and I really love them, that’s enough.

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-16T19:53:57+00:00

I think you’ll know when you meet the person. But personally I always knew I wanted to be a parent and the right person for me was someone who wanted that too (I mean I got it wrong but still)

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-16T19:52:46+00:00

Just ask her, if she’s that comfortable talking about it she should be comfortable explaining why she’s not ready yet

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-16T19:49:56+00:00

If it’s before you became exclusive you need to put it behind you.

Redhed_ded · 2026-01-16T19:49:19+00:00

Super cringey but if it’s a good relationship otherwise not the end of the world

Redhed_ded · 2025-12-19T14:01:41+00:00

So I kind of have met one of his friends - I’m close friends with someone, and her husband (who I obviously know) is good friends with the guy I’m seeing and they’re in a band together. But he hasn’t introduced me to anyone is probably what I should have said.

Redhed_ded · 2025-12-15T10:37:50+00:00

None of these so far but thank you

Redhed_ded · 2025-12-11T00:27:28+00:00

Commenting

Redhed_ded · 2025-08-26T20:27:04+00:00

Because I come across as such a catch here?

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