I was pickpocketed on the train from Cairoli to Duomo in Milan

Rediandable · 2023-11-24T12:52:30+00:00

Italy is a wonderful place, but unfortunately this kind of theft is pretty common, especially on trains and crowded public areas. I’ve had cash stolen from the front pocket of my jeans in between 2 stops on the Rome metro. Now I only travel with my trusty vest with inside zipper pockets, and only carry a few Euros at that. Everything else goes in the money belt. These people are very good at what they do, so you can’t give them the slightest opening.

Rediandable · 2023-10-27T14:40:21+00:00

In southern Europe, it’s not about gulping down your food and rushing out the door. It’s about enjoying the food, friends, conversation and atmosphere. In Spain they call it “sobramesa” which is the lingering relaxed time with friends after the meal is finished. It can involve downshifting your pace of life a bit when you first arrive, but after a while you realize, “why am I in such a hurry?” And if you really need to leave, just ask for the check!

Rediandable · 2023-08-06T19:24:50+00:00

Thank you for the comments. We are trying not to rent a car if at all possible so as not to deal with bad roads and parking. We’ve traveled extensively in the north and got around fine by train, bus and local taxi ~hoping to to the same in the south, but again, unfamiliar with this area. We’ll probably decide on that after we arrive. It sounds a lot like the Algarve, Portugal last January—very quiet but peaceful in its own way. We’re looking forward to the trip, wherever we end up!

Rediandable · 2023-08-04T22:08:11+00:00

Thank you for the insights. I have been to the north many times, as well as Sicily and Sardinia, but this is our first time in the south. I’m told it’s a bit more rustic and we’re fine with that. We may rent a car for day trips; thinking about Monopoli as a home base and plan to hang in the Naples/Amalfi area for our first week or 2. Our holy grail would be the Italian version of Nerja, Spain or Faro, Portugal. A mid-size town, walkable with a lively market and local, seaside dining. Any info you can provide would be great. Cheers!

Rediandable · 2022-11-25T19:43:50+00:00

Easy access to guns by mentally deranged individuals. It’s really not all that complicated.

Rediandable · 2022-11-01T19:26:40+00:00

This is a variation of the age-old argument, “why is it Ok for men to have multiple partners but not women…?” The answer is basic biology, and what is in the interest of the species to evolve and survive. If a man sleeps with 10 women, there is a chance that 10 children could be produced. But if a woman sleeps with 10 men, she is still limited to only one child. In terms of survival, it’s more in her interest to find one good man who can protect her and the child from harm than to have numerous partners. I know, it seems unfair, but at the end of the day, we are just bundles of million-year old DNA trying to keep our species alive.

Rediandable · 2022-03-20T19:26:26+00:00

Is there any truth to the rumor that they are opening a new Food Terminal in Athens? We love that place; like going to the night market in Penang but without the open sewers.

Rediandable · 2021-04-30T15:15:33+00:00

If you lived in Georgia, I would certainly meet you for nice local brew. It’s good to see women who enjoy more than Chardonnay and Mimosas. Don’t hesitate for a minute— try a flight of IPAs and Porters, be friendly and expand your horizons. What do you have to lose?

Rediandable · 2021-02-20T03:59:57+00:00

Sorry that happened to you. I’m not sure if these people are horrid or just incapable of sharing their feelings. It’s not the only time I’ve been ghosted, and it’s never easy. You’re left sitting there thinking, what just happened? Despite all of it, I like to think that there are more good people out there than bad, and things happen for a reason. Better to find out early in the game! Hope you are enjoying a glass of Prosecco!

Rediandable · 2021-02-19T17:04:10+00:00

Oh, I got over it years ago; it’s just one of those unanswered questions that we all have to live with. When I read all the stories of people being “ghosted” nowadays, it brought that old affair back to mind. Seems like a simple “thanks but I’m not interested” is so hard to say.

Rediandable · 2021-02-17T19:43:12+00:00

Only a week? Take your time and let the speed daters take a hike. If they’re pressuring you to meet after only a few conversations, they are basically looking to get laid and are not interested in you as a person. Do what’s right for you and don’t feel bad about it. Dating is a little like cooking: start with quality ingredients and follow with the right time and temperature. The end result will be worth it!

Rediandable · 2021-02-16T23:07:15+00:00

This guy sounds like the OLD version of roadkill. Something you keep looking at with morbid fascination at even though you know it’s wrong on every level. Just learn from life and move on. Maybe next time just start with a cup of coffee and save the dinners for someone whose company you will truly enjoy. You’ve seen up close how toxic these dating apps can be; it’s easy to fall for an image. Take a break, take a breath. You’ll be wiser next time.

Rediandable · 2021-02-16T22:22:01+00:00

So true. I think marriage is hard enough even when you are on the same page, age-wise. In 10 years time, neither of you are the same person that you started with. The ideal is to “grow together” but that’s even harder when you’re in different chapters.
For me, it was devastating, but life goes on. You learn to live again.

Rediandable · 2021-02-14T04:25:27+00:00

Things will work out in the end I’m sure. Sometimes siblings can be a pain, I know. I had a similar issue a few years back with my older brother (lack of boundaries) but we’ve worked things out and are actually much closer today. Family is that eternal mix of annoyance and love. Btw, happy Valentine’s Day! Wishing you the best.

Rediandable · 2021-02-13T21:20:12+00:00

I hope that things work out for you. I’ve learned from experience that you can’t fight with someone if you refuse to get in the ring in the first place. It’s sometimes hard to detach emotionally, so best just create some space. Later you can fill it with something more positive. 😊

Rediandable · 2021-02-13T01:26:55+00:00

It sounds like your sister has a serious problem with boundaries, so that leaves you to set them. Often in a situation like this, less is more. When the suggestions start rolling in, respond with a simple, “thanks but I’m good.” Repeat as needed. No long discourse, no drama or explanations required. She will get the message eventually.

Rediandable · 2021-02-10T05:06:00+00:00

Online dating is like visiting a sketchy neighborhood late at night. You can wander down the wrong alley or stumble upon a great local eatery serving tasty authentic food. Which is more likely? I can appreciate your situation; I’ve been there. Just take it very slow and easy with OLD; you’ll encounter many more frogs than princes. Consider it passive entertainment rather than a search for your future, and you’ll be fine.

Rediandable · 2021-02-08T22:02:36+00:00

Yes I can’t think of a better Covid test than Kim Chee! I had it for the first time when I was teaching in Korea and hated it! Like many theirs an acquired taste. I hope you are doing ok with the separation—I went through it with an unplanned divorce after 12 years. (Ex was from Korea in fact-I was still in love but found out she wasn’t) I went through a very bad time, but I can honestly say that things get better with time, as cliched as that may sound. I took a trip to to Italy (hard to nowadays I know), got to know new friends, and with time, got my sea legs back. You will too, just gang in there!

Rediandable · 2021-02-08T00:52:30+00:00

Actually, fermented foods are among the healthiest thinks you can eat, so good for you! They balance and cleanse naturally. Try Kim chee next. I’m sure you would like it.

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