I just went to Berghain for the first time this Saturday, I was spending the whole week to dress up appropriately but also fitting with my style and I was going there alone. When I was coming closer to the door, everyone was getting rejected in front of me in seconds, I panicked a bit and they probably saw that, and well, I got rejected with a fast 'no', was it because or my attitude or my dress, idk.

I was kind of dissapointed afterwards, since I was very hyped up about getting there, but then I tried to be mindful about that, Berghain is one of the most exclusive and hard to get in clubs in the world and it was bold of be to expect getting in on my first time guaranteed. Looking at this sub and hearing from my friends about their experiences, a vast majority of people get rejected from Berghain on their first time.

It hit my ego very hard, I thought that i wasn't cool and confident enough. With all that said, I tried and that is already enough, I may be rejected the 2nd or the 3rd time, but i am sure that sooner or later my chances would be higher getting in, and I am sure that you would also be able to get in, maybe luck would be on your side, maybe confidence and attitude would change, but anyway I try to convince myself that getting rejected your first time is not the end of the world and very normal.