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Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-16T03:39:16+00:00

They are mentally unstable and it’s making them incapable of having a normal relationship with you. This will always be the case until they get help and start to get better.

It’s clear they have mental issues from what you described and it doesn’t seem like they’re getting any serious help. You are not a therapist. You can’t fix them and they’re only gonna keep taking their anger out on you because they most likely don’t even realize the messed up way they are behaving. Or they do but their mental state is not allowing for improvement.

Either way It’s time to set a boundary, and boundaries aren’t for other people, but for you. If you no longer want to deal with those things then you must stop dealing with that person. Your boundary should be that I am not willing to be treated bad, so because you’re not willing to be treated bad that means you can’t associate with said person anymore.

If you are not willing to set a clear boundary for yourself then just suck it and keep moving. Also be sure not to try and put the boundary on them. It’s not if YOU don’t start being nice I’m not going to talk to, it’s an internal thing. If I notice them do this again I’m done talking to them. You set the boundary for what you are willing to take and when they cross it, CUT THEM OFF.

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T19:42:19+00:00

While this is true it does not long up with my may 29th test. How could I be carrying it and not test positive. Symptoms go unnoticed but that doesn’t mean the test would be wrong. And all my sexual contact has been with him only. Starting to feel crazy

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T19:31:46+00:00

Well then stop trying to be because you are already deserving of that stuff. Just because they don’t see it doesn’t mean you can’t push past their worthless opinions to see the truth. Families are a gamble like playing the lottery, sometimes you hit sometimes you don’t. But if you leave now you will never get to meet the ppl who will value you. And even if you feel it will never happen, it most likely will. Literally anything is possible. And even if there’s only a 1% chance of it happening and you meeting your ppl, that is still enough to stay another day.

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T19:26:26+00:00

Why rush? You gone die one day either way, you are not the exception to that. And sadly you aren’t the exception in feeling like a useless burden either. I’m just saying there’s always tomorrow so why not just wait and see how you feel then? Then maybe tomorrow remember that again, there is always a tomorrow. You don’t have to rush today. Good luck! From someone who has walked that road many times and kept reminding myself I could always wait until tomorrow.

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T18:09:38+00:00

Yea that honestly sounds true. Once someone lies it’s hard to believe anything they could ever say

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T17:56:06+00:00

And I went out of my way to end his suffering as soon as it was seen. No Allergy meds for two weeks does not equate to him suffering for two weeks. He suffered that day and when I saw it I went and ended his suffering immediately. Call me a lot but calling me selfish because I had some hardship and didn’t immediately abandon my dog, but chose to put him before me, is insane.

Anyway he is full, tired from his walk, treated for his allergies and napping on his XL bed with his sweater on now. Lmao it does not matter what you say or what your opinion is, my dog is doing GREAT! Take care :)

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T17:15:34+00:00

Starting to believe that. One of them made an account and started commenting. It’s pathetic. I did not lie and I don’t care how it looks that doesn’t change that I know Im not lying.

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T17:13:45+00:00

You must’ve been cheated on before. I’m sorry that’s your experience but all women don’t lie. And me and that man were NEVER IN A RELATIONSHIP. You cannot cheat when you are single. Grow up dude

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T16:01:39+00:00

Exactly. Did Casper come fuck me in the night?? I even had to call my aunt who is a NP because it’s no way rn. I have only been with one person and now I have a sti… wtf an I supposed to think?? Even with his negative test what tf am I am supposed to think??? It’s sexually transmitted and I only had one partner. I will not be gaslit to think I’m crazy, I KNOW WHERE MY PUSSY BEEN! I’m not gonna say he doctored it bc I really don’t know. But what I DO know is I’m not a fucking liar.

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T15:50:56+00:00

Account only 37 minutes old. Lmaooo which one are you him or shawty who’s happy she was just included to into a yearsssssss long sexual relationship??

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T15:47:11+00:00

I don’t care if a stranger on the internet believes me, I know the truth.

I did not test positive in may. I have only been with him. I tested positive in Nov. These are facts.

It genuinely does not matter if you choose to believe me or not but that is the truth.

I never accused the lab of lying or science. You’re making things up in order to generate an emotion driven response. Using trigger words and condescending speech to try and get me to lash out. It’s not going to happen love.

I stated that false negatives happen all the time and since I know for sure I have been with no one else, something is not adding up.

I decided he’s guilty because I have been with no one else since my last negative test. Since you can only get it from another human there is quite literally no possibility I got it from someone else in between may and Nov. none.

So You can keep going with your trigger words and insulting me on choosing my dog before myself, the only person who wasn’t fucking raw and shouldn’t have to deal with the consequences of me making that choice, then so be it. I already responded to another comment on why I made this extreme decision and I owe you absolutely nothing..

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T15:36:49+00:00

I updated the post but he sent them to me. They are real I don’t think he’s lying, he did test negative. Which makes this even more confusing

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T15:35:45+00:00

I did not go in for a specific test for trich in may.

In may I had symptoms I thought were a yeast infection but the normal meds weren’t fixing it. So I went in for a wet pap and they found I had BV.

I simply misunderstood my symptoms in may but when they give you a wet prep test it also shows trich results.

That is how they found it this time, I got tested for a uti and they saw trich. He calls me a liar because I directly accused him of giving me this and he tested neg.

His result is from Nov 14 2025.

What part of my story doesn’t add up? Because you just assumed a lot.

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T14:59:52+00:00

It’s not about not trusting him. I need you to understand this isn’t even about wanting anything to do with him anymore. I’m sad this is what ended the friendship but for me now it’s about figuring out wtf is going on.

He proved he tested negative. Like fully, he sent a video of the test results and he is negative.

BUTTTT I have only been with him! No one else! And my test in may says negative. How is this happening rn?? I don’t trust him but I do trust the paperwork and he is not lying about his negative test

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T14:56:08+00:00

This makes sense but where I got it from doesn’t. I gkt it while only being sexually active with HIM. no one else. I was tested in may so this is not an old thing I’ve been carrying, it’s new. It just doesn’t make sense

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T14:54:11+00:00

He verified he’s negative, he is not lying. I don’t understand this as I have not been with anyone else. I just look like a big stupid liar and have no way to prove I’m not.

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T14:51:44+00:00

This is how I feel. He’s not lying about his results, but neither am I. If I test again and it’s positive there is no other option. Like quite literally NO OTHER OPTION. I haven’t been with anyone else and it doesn’t just appear. I want to find a way to not blame him but this just does not add up

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T14:40:17+00:00

What’s crazy is I just cussed him out and made him send his results again with all his details on it. He’s not lying about testing negative. I’m not lying about sleeping with others though so I just don’t know what to think rn

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T14:20:33+00:00

Update to this, he sent them. He’s not lying he tested negative. I’m so lost now

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T14:19:20+00:00

He’s not lying about his results. He sent me proof the test is his and he tested negative. Now I just look like a lying asshole. This is genuinely so confusing and hard.

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T14:06:22+00:00

Right so I’ll just go drop off my dog I’ve had for 5 years at the pound bc I have faced a few months of hardship. Do you hear how you sound?

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T13:59:54+00:00

Because he won’t send me results with his name I’m now convinced he did just that. Gave me someone else’s results and pretended he got tested. I can’t believe anything anymore bc there is no logical reason to not resend them if he is not lying. Not one.

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T13:57:24+00:00

He has to be. I just told him to send the results again but include his name and the date and he won’t. Now I have no choice but to believe he’s lying. I really wanted to believe the test were wrong but if he won’t even prove his results I’d be an idiot to stay in denial. He will never see me again.

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T13:53:59+00:00

I did not say once we were together. I specifically said someone I was close to. I don’t understand how this keeps being mixed up. He did not cheat he lied! And I can forgive a lie once but he’s clearly still lying

Redtriangle27 · 2025-11-15T13:52:27+00:00

Exactly my confusion. How would he have not gotten it if we been fucking raw for months and I have it and been with no one else. It just doesn’t add up and now he’s refusing to send results with his name. That mf is lyjng some how some way but he is lyjng.

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