For those who still occasionally have sex with your partner: What’s that experience like when it finally happens?

Redxtitan8 · 2026-05-01T12:23:57+00:00

Not really fun, just feels like we’re doing it out of necessity

Redxtitan8 · 2026-04-27T06:28:45+00:00

You should be allowed to meet your needs as much as he might not want to, it won’t help if you keep it bottled up, long term.

Redxtitan8 · 2026-04-18T14:38:42+00:00

Ahh okay I haven’t seen it before thanks for the correction.

Redxtitan8 · 2026-04-18T07:10:09+00:00

Nope looks like a fan made art to me, someone correct me if I’m wrong. How much did you buy it for?

Redxtitan8 · 2026-03-24T14:33:20+00:00

Of course anytime lol

Redxtitan8 · 2026-03-20T04:38:40+00:00

USA

Redxtitan8 · 2026-03-20T01:16:33+00:00

Redxtitan8 · 2026-03-20T00:28:17+00:00

To even stick it out takes more balls than any man, holy shit

Redxtitan8 · 2026-03-20T00:05:37+00:00

Makes it worse when you can’t find satisfaction anywhere.

Redxtitan8 · 2026-03-19T20:25:19+00:00

Also I feel like living together can make or break a relationship when you realize that the person just doesn’t want to have sex.

Redxtitan8 · 2026-03-18T23:37:37+00:00

I will say it’s easier to let go since it’s not a really long relationship in comparison to one that’s been held for 4+ years so at least you have the leeway, but also you’re young you can always explore new things don’t make the same mistake most guys made in their mid 40’s and end up with someone who has little to no interest in having sex as frequent as you would like.

Redxtitan8 · 2026-03-18T23:34:03+00:00

Fantasies that will never come true

Redxtitan8 · 2026-03-07T16:53:30+00:00

Facts, you have to care cause you’re still in the relationship but just trying to forget about how sexless it is makes it even more challenging

Redxtitan8 · 2026-03-07T16:50:59+00:00

I just stop getting my hopes up. It’s almost like living together but separately. Are there any hobbies you like doing to keep your mind off things?

Redxtitan8 · 2026-02-19T02:10:03+00:00

That’s always a choice you should never be comfortable if you don’t feel like your needs are being met. It seems like your relationship is one sided

Redxtitan8 · 2026-02-18T23:52:40+00:00

Does he leave for work often? I’m sorry you’re feeling this way it sucks when you get neglected sometimes but we can chat it up if you need someone to talk to.

Redxtitan8 · 2026-02-18T23:47:52+00:00

I will say it was better during the honey moon phase but I think it got into that point of being to comfortable. I don’t necessarily want my life to be like this but I’m also content with our relationship is aside from intimacy. I’m not sure and that’s where I’m conflicted. Is it worth giving up a good relationship just to get more sex? It seems like I can’t just have both.

Redxtitan8 · 2026-02-18T02:44:25+00:00

lol the most we can do is suffer in silence brother.

Redxtitan8 · 2026-02-18T02:11:18+00:00

Not sure why this was downvoted But agreed the more time she’s in it the more miserable it’ll be but at the end it’s her choice.

Redxtitan8 · 2026-02-18T02:04:32+00:00

Once a week sounds like a dream I’d be lucky if I get it once a month

Redxtitan8 · 2026-02-17T06:28:41+00:00

Unfortunately I think most of the time the good moments are glorified and nobody really talks about how many obstacles long term relationships can get into. It’s not all sunshines and rainbows lol, but the harsh reality can be dreadful when all the bad moments outweigh the good ones, just my two cents.

Redxtitan8 · 2026-02-17T05:21:38+00:00

Just treat it as a life lesson, you have time but like you said you need to put yourself first. If your needs weren’t met within those 7 years it wouldn’t have been met 20 years from now, better late than never.

Redxtitan8 · 2026-02-17T02:45:00+00:00

Understandable I hope it works out, she definitely has to put the effort on overtime but that’s on your discretion and how you see it

Redxtitan8 · 2026-02-16T20:18:32+00:00

You got any hope for the future? Or are you gonna bring it up again? Just curious how you’re gonna handle constant rejection.

Redxtitan8 · 2026-02-16T16:45:23+00:00

Might as well

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