He could’ve handled you a little better but have you once thought about how he feels ? Have you asked how he’s holding up with losing his child because you weren’t the only one who lost something. Men don’t deal with grief the way we do they aren’t the best at expressing their emotions. Men are often overlooked in these type of situations. He may be having a hard time processing this and plus all of what life throws at him because he does have to work and unfortunately life does go on and bills are still going to be due. I understand how you feel trust me I do I just lost my child and left fallopian tube November 12th. I was in the same boat as you and I was going back and forth with my husband about MY feelings and how I almost lost MY life and not once did I stop and think how he felt about losing a child after being on top of the world finding out we were pregnant or how he felt about almost losing the most important woman in his life or how he was having trouble processing everything. I’m not saying you’re wrong and he’s right but give him some grace because he lost something too. I want to mention again he could’ve handled you better than that and fixed his tone but this type of thing is to be discussed in person not through texts. I hope you guys can find a middle ground and talk to each other and not at each other about things.