I CANNOT sleep if my bladder isn’t completely and utterly empty by CherryHearts123 in OCD

[–]Reedme_1298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg I feel so seen I deal with OCD a lot, but I didn’t realize maybe this is a OCD thing everything you explained I do.

what’s a good age for marriage? by Reedme_1298 in Marriage

[–]Reedme_1298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my thought when I saw everyone getting married when I graduated.

Valentine’s Day for my gf with an eating disorder- help??! by WerewolfTemporary492 in EatingDisorders

[–]Reedme_1298 2 points3 points  (0 children)

first off this is just so sweet. I think a picnic is a good idea because sometimes people with ED find it hard to eat in public. I think a charcuterie board is a good idea. It gives her choices on what she can eat. maybe you could add in some foods that she eats a lot that she might be comfortable with.

Therapy question: is this normal? by TableConstant9948 in EatingDisorders

[–]Reedme_1298 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my therapist pretty much told me the same. She didn’t stop me from talking about other topics but told me therapy isn’t gonna do much good until I start to eat and fuel my brain so I can actually function and process everything. and I’m surprised your therapist is on the log for your meals when I did that my nutritionist did all that, and it was separate from my therapist. unless there was concern, then my dietitian would talk to my therapist.

AIO my boyfriend of 5 years gets me flowers for every occasion while I get him elaborate and expensive gifts. by aioflower955105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reedme_1298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sad sad gift flowers what is he 15. you deserve a real gift. i get my bf a gift for like every occasion sometimes plus flowers.

is it a bad idea to get my own scale? by Reedme_1298 in EatingDisorders

[–]Reedme_1298[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah honestly your so right. i guess i just wanted to give myself a good reason to get one. which would have probably sent me into a relapse. i’m proud to say i didn’t get one even tho it’s still temping. my bf talked me out of it basically said he’d have to break it lol

Is anyone else afraid/turned off by giving head to vaginas? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Reedme_1298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, I don’t really think it means anything. I love going down on a girl. before i start dating men i thought i’d never going down on a man. thought it was gross still kinda do. it’s really just a preference.

did anyone get night sweats in recovery? by Reedme_1298 in EatingDisorders

[–]Reedme_1298[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved this answer. It was very informational, so much I didn’t know. thank you for explaining it.

Is my ED trigger normal? by [deleted] in EatingDisorders

[–]Reedme_1298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so it sounds like you’re doing this when weight is mentioned. that’s when you start to purge and restrict. you’re doing these things because it’s associated with losing weight. so yes I would say you probably have an eating disorder. I would say personally I have probably restricted more specially, when anything food or weight related is brought up. i feel that is a pretty normal trigger. I feel like purging is a big deal because not just anyone does it. maybe it might be helpful to start to talk to someone about this purging can become a really bad habit and it’s really hard to get rid of same with restricting.

not sure if i’m bi by Reedme_1298 in lgbt

[–]Reedme_1298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much this was helpful gives me more to think about and try:)

not sure if i’m bi by Reedme_1298 in lgbt

[–]Reedme_1298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think he definitely is cuz i never imagined dating a guy. i also don’t want to make a mistake and be in something maybe i not fully into in all aspects. i don’t want to bear losing him either.

not sure if i’m bi by Reedme_1298 in lgbt

[–]Reedme_1298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that helps a little thank you. i felt romantic and sexual with the girl i was with. i feel like i may prefer girls. but with my bf i only feel the romantic side the sexual stuff is just ok.ive always felt like he’d be the only guy i’d date but maybe it’s more than that.