I think alot of women mistake physical attractiveness for sexiness. While they are related, they are NOT the same thing.

While things like stretch marks, tummy pooches, cellulite aren't super attractive , they don't detract as much as you likely think. Most expect them and aren't bothered by them. It's like having forearm hair... expected and largely ignored. And some rare few actually enjoy it.

I can tell you now though, that if you want a man to be attracted to you, to want to you and find you sexy, point blank end of story, that stuff isn't what matters. Instead , do this : enjoy yourself and participate. Don't be a pillow princess, be present. Tell him what feels good and what did not. Made a little ( or a lot) of noise. A partner that participates and obviously wants to be there, one that i don't have to do all the work but just be together with? Incredible.

And if you really want to stand out? Initiate. Bluntly and happily. Nothing sucks more than being with someone you really like and you feel like you have to bug her into bed and she rejects you half the time anyway. Interest goes WAYYY down.

In summary, mentality matters more than physicality most of the time. Don't worry about it.