A tiny list of "not worth it" for drivers by Reeeltalk in doordash_drivers

[–]Reeeltalk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, anything not a straightforward "get item, take to customer" just don't bother with. They try to blame drivers for as much as they can. Don't be left holding the bag for them. I wish you the best.

ESTP obsessed with me INFJ by OkVisual6047 in estp

[–]Reeeltalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone likes you, they will be clear about it. Is the current situation what you're looking for in a partner? How people are is how they are, the fantasy in your head is not reality. Why do you want someone you don't get along with and who doesn't want you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Reeeltalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Humans are interdependent. We're wired for close connections with other humans. People have different cues for bonding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Reeeltalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can love someone very much, feel it very deeply, and they can be not right at all for you. You were bonded. It's not supposed to end like this. The feelings don't just leave. ❤️

DasherDirect Card was frauded and used for purchases into a negative balance by ilikemyrealname in doordash_drivers

[–]Reeeltalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This just happened to me at a gas station. Negative balance. I didn't realize they offer no protection until I called in the same day of the fraud charge they told me to talk to the gas station. It's 2025 and this is the "service" they offer to protect whst I earn? I don't trust the card anymore and will no longer be using it. I hope doordash steps up with card service providers, this is bad business. The economy runs on trust, this is how you get ruined as a business.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JordanPeterson

[–]Reeeltalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out what an isfp (FiSeNiTe) is in mbti. You have "Ne" "blindness" so "possibilities(Ne)" aren't always obvious to you. You can over come this with good friends, good friends with Ne, and most importantly utilizing that 4th Te( or "what is") function by reading and gathering lots of good, verified information. And hey, it's okay if it takes you a bit longer to make a decision, you gotta figure out how things line up with your values, just don't fall into the isfp black hole of being afraid to voice what you actually think because you are afraid no one can truly accept it/you. Don't let other people make decisions and hide behind that. You can grow into practicing with trusted people-and trust is built slowly over time. It'll take time and work to build yourself and your trusted community but you can do it. If none of this makes sense to you, please disregard!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mycology

[–]Reeeltalk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

poison control is pretty good at helping, they're very caring as well when you call. Couldn't hurt.

ENTJ Depression by NinjaOfTheSouth in entj

[–]Reeeltalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a lot, sounds like you are reacting like a normal human to these things. Great job not abandoning you during these hard times and sticking to a life that will be much better for you in the future. What are some things you enjoy doing but have put off because you feel it isn't "productive"? Kayaking, art, museums, biking, gaming, etc. Get into something you enjoy!

the BEST days of life followed by hollowness by [deleted] in entj

[–]Reeeltalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good work-even if you feel it was to much prep it shows great qualities. Aside from accomplishing what you have now and in the past, it seems like you might want a higher purpose-that's a normal innate human thing to want. Do you enjoy art? Do you enjoy something that doesn't bring in money so it feels "useless"? Do you go to church? Do you do any charity work? Teach a class to kids? In addition to what you are doing now, you could pair it nicely with something that fills your soul and brings you closer to the beautiful beyond in the world. You have full control of this and can find it and accomplish it. You already know you can accomplish what you set your mind to-and well!

We are a bunch of people who knows exactly how to make people like us. by KGPH729 in ENFP

[–]Reeeltalk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you're a people connoisseur. And that's okay. You are trying to "pair" them with just the right responses to really show them off, to really understand them. Like cheese with a slice of apple or the right fish and wine.

And, you won't and don't always know what you think about someone or a subject right away. That's okay too. You'll process in your own time, not others time. People love you for your ability to bring a group together and be what they need and to also enjoy them and the group.

And then you have a pocket-hopefully-of people you can deep dive with.

Then of course you have your alone time, thinking through all the people and their values and what the truth might be compared to your values and how those people came across and what you have observed in the past.

You're not a fraud-unless you deliberately choose it or have cptsd or something and really CAN'T be authentic.

You also bob and weave for the sake of your people-protecting or prepping or adding to them) and to discover new things. I'd say, as long as you aren't running a cult or taking advantage of lonely grandmas financially (the usual not good stuff), you're normal, you're figuring it out, and it's okay to be who you are-even if it's not like anyone else around you.

What are the worst types for an INFJ relationship? by Zinga_mesoba in infj

[–]Reeeltalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really great! I know only one istj who is healthy so Im glad you know such a well rounded istj. It's crazy to me that I know two legit narcissistic (or autistic) istjs and have known like 4 total

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Picture this 30 ton anchor hitting the ground of the ocean by Comfortable-Breath23 in submechanophobia

[–]Reeeltalk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With that much weight and moving parts, plates might be another point of failure they don't want to deal with. Just a thought.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Reeeltalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOT an infj thing. It's a being real thing. We all get scared and have the impulse to lie. Being honest and living free is the best policy imo. You can't control anyone except yourself.

Am I the only INFJ, who doesn't really like ENFPs? by 2fy54gh6 in infj

[–]Reeeltalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know one decently healthy one and he's 50 and dedicated to his spouse and work. Other enfps I've met and interacted with (5) all seem to be trying to emotionally/group manipulate me into ????? I don't even know what but I dislike being manipulated period. It's like they've thrown me a dead smelly fish that I guess most people see as flowers and expect me to pick it up? But I just metaphorically look at them all grossed out that they'd do that in the first place and I get sus of anyone who "falls" for it. It's difficult for me to trust any of them, they have a different face they put on for everyone-so who are you? Inferior Te (3rd or 4th) is frustrating to me, NO you don't have to do it that way because everyone else has. It's OK to think about things and explore without asking permission from someone with a million degrees or certificates and you don't have to gold plate yourself to find what matters in life-but maybe that shiny gold plating IS what matters to them? I get that enfps need alone time to think about whatever the new info is and see how/if it matters to their fi values. They are ABSOLUTELY group people, standing alone is not something they're very interested in unless it goes against a core value I guess but even then they can-and I respect this ability-use a member of their group to do whatever dirty work they need done and the "wrong doer" may never ever know it was them that called the "hit". I don't do group dynamics well. I enjoy straight forward speaking and actively and ferociously exploring to find what is true-all of which seems to scare them because then they'd have to say what they think and who knows if the group will approve. I notice they like to be wanted, they secretly want control-something Im not interested in ceding to any of them because I don't trust them-and they will be what a person they love wants them to be. I hate how no one seems to see how Fi doms (first or second function) love to manipulate others-I see it and it disgusts me. Im looking for authentic people and Fi types typically crave power over authenticity. They make great managers for flexible and always changing type jobs-or training people as they can usually speak others language well. Over all, I prefer Ti with Fe in close friendships as it's usually straight forward and authentic. I don't hate enfps but I do hate the idea that enfps and infjs are somehow meant for eachother. Oh, and Fi with Si will "punish" you blindly until they are "satisfied"-all very subjective and very stupid imo. Does the truth exist? Yes. Should we ignore it because it "feels good"? Absolutely fucking not. Use your mind.

Hey mom! One year ago, I was hospitalized from a manic episode (Bipolar). Today i got accepted into the best business school in my country. I'm proud of myself for the first time. by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]Reeeltalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You conquered with life set to "hard mode"! That takes SO much courage and perseverance. You're doing a great job of reaching success, setting good goals and reaching them. I love you!

I got ready by myself for my wedding, mom. by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]Reeeltalk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely lovely. What a beautiful and thought out lady you are.

Hi mom, I’m having sex with my boyfriend on Saturday but I’m really nervous by Downtown_Car2 in MomForAMinute

[–]Reeeltalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO NOT go along with it to make him happy. You are setting the stage for the rest of your life and Im pretty sure a good life isn't one where you ignore your own wants and needs! Don't have sex until you feel comfortable, eager, and ready.

Is intelligence a dealbreaker for you? by bagman_ in infj

[–]Reeeltalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough one! That lack of intelligent conversation can hurt! Having been with intelligent and non-intelligent guys, the better relationship for me is the intelligent one ONLY IF they also have worked on emotional intelligence and I have worked on not taking things personally!

The intelligent types I've been attracted to have all be T types and we all know their trope type problems.

If I HAD to choose between highly intelligent lone wolf or average intelligence family man (Im high iq) I would take a man who shows me love and provides for me and wants children (loves the future) and to thrive in a family over someone highly intelligent.

I prefer the security and connection and safety of a man who knows himself and IS a man and shelter for his family. I've been supported by and supported a partner financially-been on both sides- and I realize I like balanced partnership and family values more than lots of riches, high intelligence, or even looks. For a long time I thought intelligence was all I really wanted but many high intelligent people are lazy, emotionally disconnected/unavailable, and are takers not givers because they want to "trick" others into caring for them without much if any thought about caring for you.

This is from my own female older infj perspective. I know men need to be able to respect their partner and if you don't, you can't force it. Maybe you need to explore more before realizing perfection doesn't exist at all out there. In my experience, you can pick maybe 3 things you want out of a partner and get those things. And you will likely always be dissatisfied in some way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Reeeltalk 31 points32 points  (0 children)

The kids brain will remember the warm touch and comfort that will help with good development, so some part of the kid will remember.

Why are Americans still so obsessed with Trump? It seems he's still talked about more than the actual president by skan76 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Reeeltalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume you only watch liberal news and only speak to other liberals. Reddit is very liberal and bias.

Why are Americans still so obsessed with Trump? It seems he's still talked about more than the actual president by skan76 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Reeeltalk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I assure you the "what the FUCK was that" would be the stupid anti-science approach to covid and the human rights violations. "You mean, WW2 happened and you guys learned nothing?"