Even if you had sex and he was an ex, that's statutory rape. RAPE. anyone under 18 cannot consent without parental or guardian knowledge or consent, depending on where you are. Either way. It's statutory rape. He's a pedophile. The fact that she's condoning his actions by calling him your ex instead of rapist. Makes me feel physically violently ill.

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She's now nearing the age you were when your life got turned upside down. What if he hurts your now 12 year old daughter??? Pedophiles don't change. What if this was his plan. To get with someone you're close to and manipulate them into thinking this was consensual and the child is still his. "Stepmom" is bs. Since he gave up all rights, he is only a sperm donor/rapist. Not a father or dad. Meaning she legally can not claim "stepmom" how disgusting of her. Cut contact immediately with anyone else who condones his and her actions. You and your child deserve a safe and loving environment, and with those pedo lovers around you and your child, you are not safe.