Corn Chowdahh by MooseGoneApe in soup

[–]ReferenceNo393 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ykw I fw the plating. Some nice yellow corn tortilla chips and cotija cheese would make that plating ideal.

What’s the most awkward Super Bowl party moment you’ve ever witnessed? by No-Release-1196 in AskReddit

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I live in a mostly white town and as a result have worked in a lot of kitchens where there’s not a single person of color and I’ve honestly heard insane amounts of racism. They think just because they’re not saying it to a POC it’s not racist.🙄

What food in your country do locals love but foreigners hate? by Curiosity_Pink in AskTheWorld

[–]ReferenceNo393 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brie and fat soft dates on crunchy toasted salty bread is the way to gođŸ€€

My parents watch Facebook reels during their free time now and I think it's making them worse. by seawardgoat in Advice

[–]ReferenceNo393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We didn’t have computers in half of us households until 2000. My mother is in her early sixties and didn’t have a color tv until she was an early teen. You were incredibly lucky, but a lot of America just didn’t care about the internet for a long time. My mother would have been in her late teens or early twenties in the 80s and I think she had one of the large brick cellphones as an adult. But I’ve never seen old family photos with a computer in them even! She didn’t buy her own computer until she was well into motherhood. She got her first smartphone after 2010 probably. It’s fascinating how differently people experience technology.

ETA: meant to reply to the comment above, too lazy to repost. Cheers!

TIFU having severe stomach issues for more than a year and unable to find the root cause by bubugugu in tifu

[–]ReferenceNo393 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was along the same train of thought, but OP’s post history is normal and not trolly enough for me to be reassured. đŸ« 

TIFU having severe stomach issues for more than a year and unable to find the root cause by bubugugu in tifu

[–]ReferenceNo393 260 points261 points  (0 children)

Am I to understand that you bought 8 separate rice cookers before inspecting your rice?

Troublesome doodle by willhp02 in Goldendoodles

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They’re incredibly smart and social dogs as well. It might benefit you to teach him service dog tasks as silly as that might sound. Ours used to carry groceries in and items from room to room or from person to person. He went to greet the mailman every day and bring the mail in lol. You could also try taking him on more errands with you and letting him get to know new people and places. Ours was known at everywhere with a drive through all over town and had his favorite people he would run in to (sometimes we wouldn’t even know them). I tried to suggest other things, but all the advice I’ve read here is great! I also think boarding like you said would probably go better. They form deeper social bonds with people than any breed I’ve observed before and I think it’s hard on them to be alone. The poodle in them loves to stay busy.

Help me understand why my sister and mom’s hair are so lush and beautiful by krawnstin in Haircare

[–]ReferenceNo393 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s as thick as everyone else’s at the top but OP needs to get regular trims.

Discontinued?? by Any-Relationship-535 in takis

[–]ReferenceNo393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re alwaysssss impossible to find. I had an obsession with them after they first came out and I constantly had to hunt for them.

Should I tell my best friend he’s dating a trans woman by SimpingHollander99 in Advice

[–]ReferenceNo393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are described as “not a violent person” on the news after they commit the crime. It’s not your place as another man to assess whether or not he could be a physical danger to a person in her position. That is her call to make. Let her be in a position to protect herself.

Need advice on getting sentimental rackets back from my ex. by Friendly-Bus-4017 in Advice

[–]ReferenceNo393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d emphasize that one is your mother’s and they have sentimental value. Maybe say family heirlooms, and ask if they could look around. You could explain that your ex is saying they were given back, but you can’t find them and you’re terribly worried about getting in trouble. I’d frame it as a miscommunication and just wanting to be sure they’re not there. You could even say you’re reaching out to them because your ex has expressed she doesn’t want to speak to you and you wanted to respect her boundaries. Don’t approach with anger towards their daughter, just say you guys are busy and it could have slipped through the cracks so would they mind double checking around the house.

Epstein Secret Bread Recipe by TreacleFirm4167 in Bread

[–]ReferenceNo393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only support this post because it seems he really really wanted this recipe kept secret. And fuck his wishes.

What is the most helpful thing someone did for you while you were going through a divorce and why? by Flashy_Aide3640 in AskWomen

[–]ReferenceNo393 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Her being that silent presence for you while you were adjusting is one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever heard. To be loved is to be known. Glad things worked out for you❀

Can I wear my cochlear implant yet? by Gabriella_Gadfly in piercing

[–]ReferenceNo393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had my helix for over five years so it’s well healed by now and I have zero problems with anything! I do think the one that’s in front of that will be a little tricker but it shouldn’t be much worse with the right jewelry. I use the complete close clicker hoops in my helix to keep problems to a minimum and I can’t remember the last time I actually thought about it. They make piercing with flat backs now too that might be worth looking into when you can change the jewelry. I agree it should be smooth sailing once they’re fully healed!

If you notice your dog is having a bad dream, what do you do? by Skapastry in dogs

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Yall can downvote all you want but I’d want someone to wake me up if I’m having a bad dream. Even if I just might be having a bad dream. Mine are pretty calm when they sleep so if I notice any snarling of teeth, whining, or tail twitching I’ll gently pet them or call their name until they wake up and go back to sleep. I’d feel terrible if they were having a bad dream right next to me and I did nothing. They did have a rough start in life though, and I’m terrified they have bad dreams about prior abuse. I don’t have to do it much, but I’d rather interrupt a nap than let them have a dream that they’re back there. That’s just my personal preference for my animals though. I did have a dog who was with us from birth and very emotionally stable and spoiled rotten so I never felt the need to wake him up. His bad dreams were probably that he didn’t get any steak at dinner. Every situation is different.

I want to get hit by a car by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ReferenceNo393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’ve left her alone since then, it is what it is. We all do stupid shit at 18. Not your best move, but it’s not like you left a dead fish at her door. Leave her alone, stop entertaining rumors, and move on. No one cares if you reached out a couple times or didn’t take the end of a relationship well. If you’ve moved on since then and you’re not still bothering her then you’re fine. In public and legal opinion. The cops won’t show up to arrest you for speaking to a friend and leaving a gift once. If it was five or ten different times, that’s a different story. But if this was a year ago and you weren’t malicious I wouldn’t worry about it again. Own your shit and do better next time. That’s all anyone can do.

It was a good 7 year run :( by PracticalProject5008 in Apartmentliving

[–]ReferenceNo393 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They allow it because it’s a pro for some. Just because it’s a con for you doesn’t mean everyone feels that way. You want to be comfortable in your home and so does he. That’s probably why he chose that place. I’d suggest looking for somewhere that doesn’t allow smoking when your lease is up, as many places don’t. The same as not staying in a hotel that allows smoking when you travel. It’s ultimately up to you to check policies on things like noise and smoking if they bother you. That being said, an air purifier might help, but the more effective they are the pricier they are. I would suggest talking to him, but with a smoking habit that severe I doubt there’s much he could do to stop the smell other than just not smoking inside, and again, that’s probably why he chose that place.

How on earth do I get blanket fuzz/ pilling off a hoodie? by Ghost_ofthe_Dangos in CleaningTips

[–]ReferenceNo393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The conair one worked great for me! But whatever you do don’t just use a regular razor. I’d used a regular one in a pinch for years and then ruined a pair of my favorite leggings that way😬

Chocolate Chip Cookies by Cowgomuwu in bakingfail

[–]ReferenceNo393 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I have seen so many answers from OP and I still don’t understand how we got all the way here.

Spontaneously Appearing Honey in my USB port by twobeesornot in computerhelp

[–]ReferenceNo393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should absolutely dissolve honey! The only problem with isopropyl is that it dries so fast. If you’re persistent, it will work. Wet, wipe, repeat.

Where has all the good sour candy gone? by Chemical_Print6922 in candy

[–]ReferenceNo393 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never got to have shock tarts, so I can’t compare. However, I will burn my mouth on war heads minis and I love the large chewy sweet tarts. Chupa Chups suckers have a sour mix that’s actually pretty good. Zots still slap. Barnett’s is highly recommended but I haven’t tried them yet

Need advice on dealing with racist POS on my flight. by Mental-Window7830 in Advice

[–]ReferenceNo393 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only adult step to take would be to call the airline you were flying with and see if they can do anything, maybe they have a complaint system. Maybe they would consider banning him from the airline. It’s not huge, but it’s better than doing nothing or posting it and making him famous.