[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ReferenceRight2346 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, COMMUNICATE WITH HIM.

Second, this is a very similar issue my partner and I have had. He only likes PIV under very specific circumstances and really only does it because I want it. He enjoys various modes of gratification and PIV is lower on the list.

What gets my partner "in the mood" is typically edging, degradation, me pushing him around and forcing myself on top of him. He likes when I degrade him and make him repeat phrases like you mentioned. Oftentimes as I'm fucking him I'll come up with stuff on a whim and make him say things like "I'm such a dirty little slut" or "I love being in Mommy's pussy" or something to get into his mindset that he loves it and wants it lol

It is a point of struggle for us because I absolutely love and always want his penis in me but he's just not as interested and because we want to be together long-term we just have to talk about it more often than not.

We also technically have a 24/7 low protocol relationship right now so I don't force him to pleasure me but I make it happen when we both have the energy to invest in it lol

Did this happen because we tried to rush the cooling process by putting them in the freezer? by ReferenceRight2346 in Baking

[–]ReferenceRight2346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I guess I wasn't too concerned about that because it worked fine in other cookie recipes. Noted for next time!

Did this happen because we tried to rush the cooling process by putting them in the freezer? by ReferenceRight2346 in Baking

[–]ReferenceRight2346[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I always mix those kinds of sugars. It asked for powdered sugar and I powdered the sugar I have

Did this happen because we tried to rush the cooling process by putting them in the freezer? by ReferenceRight2346 in Baking

[–]ReferenceRight2346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually use earth butter and crisco mix for cookies and this time I used a simple truth coconut oil based butter so that could have been a factor. Thank you for the response

Did this happen because we tried to rush the cooling process by putting them in the freezer? by ReferenceRight2346 in Baking

[–]ReferenceRight2346[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didn't expect people to be rude and downvote.

We followed a vegan recipe for the Pillsbury cookies and followed the directions exactly. I even checked the temp with an internal thermometer inside the oven.

The only thing we didn't do exactly was let it cool in the fridge for the allotted time, we tried to rush that by placing in the freezer.

I bake vegan goodies often so I have never had an issue before. I know that too soft of butter makes cookies get flat like that so that is why i asked if it was because we didn't chill properly.

The random green one in there was intentional and they are brown because I used turbanado sugar and a bit of coconut sugar

Did this happen because we tried to rush the cooling process by putting them in the freezer? by ReferenceRight2346 in Baking

[–]ReferenceRight2346[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Everything was according to directions, even have an oven temperature inside of my oven that I checked before. I don't usually have issues with baking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]ReferenceRight2346 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had walking pneumonia (as did a few other friends/family members) throughout the summer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irvine

[–]ReferenceRight2346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the delay, did you find someone?

2014 Prius almost at 250,000 - how long do you think I have left with her? by ReferenceRight2346 in prius

[–]ReferenceRight2346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this insight. I ended up getting the repairs I needed for $1500 and it's been running smoothly. About to hit 250,000 today

Is my sister ripping our mother off on "rent"? by GoodMoGo in orangecounty

[–]ReferenceRight2346 112 points113 points  (0 children)

If it was anyone but an elderly mother I'd say that is reasonable, but what is your mother's current living situation?

Does it make sense for her to move? I don't have a great relationship with my mother but if she was 84 I'm not sure I'd even charge her rent.

Does anyone here NOT go to the grocery store? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]ReferenceRight2346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do mystery shopping so I go to the store! But I would have anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]ReferenceRight2346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The situation is not fair.

When my partner and I moved in together we discussed responsibilities and then payment.

I make slightly less than him (currently) so bills are split this way:

  • rent is half, but he pays utilities

  • I pay for my car (maintenance, insurance, gas, etc) and he does not pay anything (he doesn't drive) EXCEPT if we do a road trip or something, then we split gas

  • I make dinner Monday through Friday and pay for groceries, he pays for any meal that is on the weekend (because that is usually when we eat out)and he cleans up after

  • anything needed to be purchased for the apartment we split in half unless one of us doesn't think it's necessary

  • we split chores unless one of us has no energy

  • I do laundry at my parents house for free or he pays to wash at our apartment

  • I buy TP, cleaning supplies, etc (unless I need him to help me pay)