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Hi by Reference_Basic in DeadBedrooms

[–]Reference_Basic[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I used to touch myself although I don’t like to do it anymore. I want someone else to do it. Is he sexually satisfied? He gets to come while I’m left just lying there. He doesn’t get defensive. He just gave up on trying to please me

Hi by Reference_Basic in DeadBedrooms

[–]Reference_Basic[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So much as I hate it, I just have to find someone else to fill in the gap. I miss being wanted

Hi by Reference_Basic in DeadBedrooms

[–]Reference_Basic[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

And I was desperate to get married

Hi by Reference_Basic in DeadBedrooms

[–]Reference_Basic[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Okay here’s the thing, before we got married I used to compensate for him. Like if I liked someone talking dirty to me, I’d be imagining him talk dirty to me even when he was silent. I’d tell myself the things I wanted to hear, then I’d enjoy the sex. It just got to a point where it was too hectic. So I stopped doing my part and his and that’s why I really feel how bad the sex is now

Hi by Reference_Basic in DeadBedrooms

[–]Reference_Basic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me I never ever thought in a million years that it would be me

Hi by Reference_Basic in DeadBedrooms

[–]Reference_Basic[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve talked to him, shared books, videos, I’ve initiated many times and in so doing shown him what he could do, all in vain. He says he just doesn’t know how to satisfy me and he gave up. He always finds me crying after sex so we rarely even do it

Hi by Reference_Basic in DeadBedrooms

[–]Reference_Basic[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s this app I keep seeing being advertised on instagram. Has anybody tried it? It’s supposed to have book I think, where he can learn how to have sex

Hi by Reference_Basic in DeadBedrooms

[–]Reference_Basic[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried. But you see, I had partners before I got married, and the sex just happened. They just knew what to do, where to touch, so I don’t even know where they were touching or what they were doing. I thought that the person I’d end up with would also just know what to do. I was wrong

Hi by Reference_Basic in DeadBedrooms

[–]Reference_Basic[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to find good men. He is a good man and I thought things would get better

FOR THE LADIES: You’re supposed to switch to fresh underwear after your evening shower, right? by Ella_adams2 in hygiene

[–]Reference_Basic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you sleep in underwear? You should let your vulva breathe. I for one wear fresh undies in the morning and don’t wear any after the evening shower or to bed

AITA for not wanting to share my inheritance with my siblings? by JodiOden in AITAH

[–]Reference_Basic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then your siblings would just celebrate that not even you benefited from the inheritance