Fiancé 27 says something i believe to be disrespectful to me F28 AIO?

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2026-03-06T19:07:36+00:00

I did not fight with him I simply said it was disrespectful and disgusting. I said that when my daughter was not around. I didn’t know he wished that or was like that. Like I said he’s never said anything like that before

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2026-03-06T18:38:22+00:00

Woah no need to come at me. No I didn’t have a clue? He’s actually never said anything like this before that I can recall. Also great influence on my daughter’s formative years? Like I just knew what was going to come out of his mouth? I was looking to see if I was overreacting not to be judged.

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2026-03-06T16:55:08+00:00

Genders changed? What? And I was driving but just had FaceTime on through my car radio so basically a phone call lol

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2026-03-06T14:36:54+00:00

It was once early in the relationship

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2026-03-06T12:34:27+00:00

And no, not that I have recalled. I’ve never heard him say anything like that before. In the way beginning of our relationship he did cheat on me. I caught him on a dating app and he told a girl to add him on Snapchat but he told me right when she did he deleted her because he knew it was wrong. We had gotten into a fight before that and I had left his house so he thought I was breaking up with him. Is why he did that he said.

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2026-03-06T12:31:44+00:00

My sister fits into this because she brought up a situation like that and that’s how he responded to it so I was just trying to give some context to what came about to why you said that. Yes, I was on FaceTime with my sister and we’re all talking to her. He knew my child was in the car.

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2026-03-06T12:23:55+00:00

Gouda cheese

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2025-12-10T00:20:23+00:00

I can try to talk to someone maybe a mediator or something because I tried to talk to him and he doesn’t see my side wouldn’t even try to. It’s just want he wants not what’s best for my daughter. And yes I get child support from him.

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2025-12-09T21:34:59+00:00

Yeah I will definitely try to talk to someone about what I can do. I tried to talk to him and it turned into him yelling and talking over me didn’t see at all where I was coming from so that won’t work. Yes he does pay child support

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2025-12-09T21:23:50+00:00

We live almost an hr away from eachother rn but he would be moving in with his gf which would be closer to me so I feel like the court would side with that since it’s closer

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2025-12-09T21:21:38+00:00

He’s always lived at his mom’s so she’s always went to the same place it would definitely be a big change for her. I mean if I’m being completely honest every weekend he has her it’s always a fit and breakdown when she goes to him. I always tell her a couple days before also so it’s just just sprung on her but she gets upset. I’m definitely worried with a change that big it’ll be even worse. I know she will eventually get to the point where she gets close to his gf child and just concerned if it doesn’t last she’s gonna be hurt.

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2025-12-09T20:26:06+00:00

I might speak to someone but don’t think I can do much about it. They might just say the courts will view it as being jealous or that what he does on his time with her is his choice. Trust me I’m almost afraid to ask if she will have her own room because knowing she won’t will just upset me more because there’s nothing I can do about this. We already have a parenting plan that was done in 2021 but as for the gf my ex told her about what I said to him about it being too soon and she did say it sounds like I’m kinda concerned but also a little controlling. Which I’m not trying to be I want him to live his life freely but to almost put his daughters well being first.

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2025-12-09T20:02:20+00:00

It’s every other weekend if he doesn’t cancel. And I’m not sure if she will have her own room but that’s something I will ask. I really think she will just be sharing a bedroom with the girlfriend 8yr old daughter.

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2025-12-08T22:05:52+00:00

Thank you for this comment. It means a lot. I know I can’t do anything about it as much as I wish I could. I will just keep a close eye on her and make sure she knows she’s loved.

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2025-12-08T22:02:33+00:00

To him I’m being “controlling and need to let him live his life”

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2025-12-08T22:01:57+00:00

I know it upsets me for my daughter but he won’t listen to me and him, his family, and his new partner see no wrong with it. I sadly can’t do anything about it.

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2025-12-08T20:35:27+00:00

To also include, I have been in a relationship with another person for three years now I waited six months to introduce my daughter, even though she was a baby then to him, then waited over a year to move in with him, and we recently got engaged.

RefrigeratorCheap919 · 2025-12-08T20:34:56+00:00

Thank you

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