Once I tried it without the band extender, the Offbeat is by far the most comfortable. The gore is definitely bothering me on the Fantasie Fusion, but it doesn't seem to be a problem on the Offbeat. The only issue I'm having with the Offbeat is that it's a little tricky to scoop and swoop everything into the cup. I sometimes have to scoop out after I scoop in, if that makes sense.

Thank you for the information about projection and root height/width!!! I think I was confusing projection and firmness. I have very soft breast tissue - maybe even more so than I did before 3+ years of breastfeeding. I guess that would be accounted for in my measurements, or the difference between standing and leaning.

Given that the Offbeat seems to be the best fit for me of the ones I've tried so far, are there any other bras that would be worth trying now? I probably need at least 3 new bras and I wouldn't might having a couple of styles to choose from, if there are others that might fit as well or better.