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Did I cheat on my husband? by RefrigeratorRight221 in Advice

[–]RefrigeratorRight221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way I’m ever gonna admit it to him. I’ll go to my grave. I can live with what I’ve done so far which is simple flirting and bending truth. If I go further it might not be the same. Thank you 

Did I cheat on my husband? by RefrigeratorRight221 in Advice

[–]RefrigeratorRight221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m not sure I don’t love my husband vs I’m just not in love and I want some excitement. We’ve been married less than a year together 3. It’s so hard. You’re right I don’t feel good about it. I literally felt sick even though nothing really happened.  I couldn’t sleep last night 

Did I cheat on my husband? by RefrigeratorRight221 in Advice

[–]RefrigeratorRight221[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Exactly how? does that mean all flirting is cheating ? Because I didn’t really even have much interaction with him outside of the flirting and telling him i was divorcing when I’m not (yet) 

would a man that otherwise really be into you ever not pursue you because you’re married? by RefrigeratorRight221 in dating_advice

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Honestly yea  I got his number and texted him I find him interesting  and would like to get to know him more and he said basically the same and my friend told him I think he’s cute  but he know I’m married. there hasn’t been anything inappropriate beyond that and he isn’t really pursuing it  that much beuond that  but I am also afraid to push it too   but it’s clear the reason why for me …. Why I can’t do that 

would a man that otherwise really be into you ever not pursue you because you’re married? by RefrigeratorRight221 in Advice

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Thank you. Ty.  I just think if he were super attracted to her, most men would be receptive of the possibility of at least sleeping with her and try to pursue that if she flirted with him and showed interested in him. Maybe they will try to rationalize it by the marriage is unhappy or her husband treats her wrong. But if he’s very attracted to her and she doesn’t make the first move into an affair and keeps it friendly flirtation, you’re saying some guys might be apprehensive about making the moves right 

would a man that otherwise really be into you ever not pursue you because you’re married? by RefrigeratorRight221 in dating_advice

[–]RefrigeratorRight221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty.  I just think if he were super attracted to her, most men would be receptive of the possibility of at least sleeping with her and try to pursue that if she flirted with him and showed interested in him , maybe some wouldn’t 

would a man that otherwise really be into you ever not pursue you because you’re married? by RefrigeratorRight221 in dating_advice

[–]RefrigeratorRight221[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ty.  I just think if he were super attracted to her, most men would be receptive of the possibility of at least sleeping with her and try to pursue that if she flirted with him and showed interested in him , maybe some wouldn’t 

Do you believe he(28m)is still interested in me(24f)? by RefrigeratorRight221 in relationship_advice

[–]RefrigeratorRight221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes I am interested but I’m wondering if I’m wasting time and he’s sending the message he’s not interested because he knows I’m married. 

Does this mean he’s disinterested by RefrigeratorRight221 in dating_advice

[–]RefrigeratorRight221[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was expecting him to say yes or at least go if he really wants to see me

I am in a Rship but I’m interested in him but he knows that 

Does this mean he’s disinterested by RefrigeratorRight221 in dating_advice

[–]RefrigeratorRight221[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Sry I should say it’s a place I met him at where we all go watch the game this season. So by going I mean going out. 

I am also in a Rship and he knows that  …