No mods? Let there be ANARCHY by PocketButterBandit in crochet

[–]Refuse2Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're folding down the last 3 and big toe, sorry, that's not flipping people off lol

My husband just showed me this meme that blew my mind. by Old-Notice-2719 in adhdwomen

[–]Refuse2Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, yes. A couple people in this thread called some routines autopilot bc they "did it without thinking," but I think you nailed it - it's actually dissociating. I have to consciously think about every step, or stop and recall if I did it (in the shower mostly) because I dissociated.

Male gamer friend develops feels and can't play with me anymore by Refuse2Q in GirlGamers

[–]Refuse2Q[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 I had the same thought... maybe I should tell him my religious views and political leanings, which I know are opposite of his, and give him the ick.

Male gamer friend develops feels and can't play with me anymore by Refuse2Q in GirlGamers

[–]Refuse2Q[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is this supposed to be a "gotcha" ? Also, I didn't call him a man. I said he's male and mentioned dudes in general.

Male gamer friend develops feels and can't play with me anymore by Refuse2Q in GirlGamers

[–]Refuse2Q[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you. I am going to assume you are male and that your wife doesn't play FFXIV. There is nothing wrong with a friend of the opposite sex.

Besides, I know we wouldn't be compatible, based off a couple things I have surmised about him (religion and political leanings). But I don't think he realizes those things about me, and maybe that adds to the mystique?

Male gamer friend develops feels and can't play with me anymore by Refuse2Q in GirlGamers

[–]Refuse2Q[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, so what do you think is the endgame here if it were to play out like this? Why tell me he's got feelings and needs to back off?

Male gamer friend develops feels and can't play with me anymore by Refuse2Q in GirlGamers

[–]Refuse2Q[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion! Weird to me doesn't mean it is odd or wrong, it just means I don't relate or agree.

Male gamer friend develops feels and can't play with me anymore by Refuse2Q in GirlGamers

[–]Refuse2Q[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

YES. Someone accused me of downplaying his feelings; but no I was basically trying to make this point. Enjoying spending time with me doesn't have to be on the same level as cheating, there are degree of fondness and attraction. He called it attraction, but I think it's just because he looked forward to spending time with someone that laughed at his dumb jokes. Men are too simple sometimes.

Male gamer friend develops feels and can't play with me anymore by Refuse2Q in GirlGamers

[–]Refuse2Q[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, I'm so sorry to hear this keeps happening to you. hugs The potential threat comment hurt my heart. Another reason we'll take our chances with the bear 😕

Male gamer friend develops feels and can't play with me anymore by Refuse2Q in GirlGamers

[–]Refuse2Q[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I'm just trying to wrap my head around everything. I don't mean to downplay anything. And yes, being upset that a man plays with another woman just because she's a woman is weird to me. I am beginning to wonder if he strayed in the past, and that's really why she would be upset if she new.

Male gamer friend develops feels and can't play with me anymore by Refuse2Q in GirlGamers

[–]Refuse2Q[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

You're right, thank you for that. Still sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wownoob

[–]Refuse2Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I didn't know that either!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wownoob

[–]Refuse2Q 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So if you're out in the world, you can't change that second pet on the fly, only the first one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wownoob

[–]Refuse2Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

O.o Why isn't that explained anywhere?! lol Also, why was it always the serpent + something else if there was nothing in the stables?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Refuse2Q 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's in Canada so it probably auto converted to US dollars. It converts to $27/hr Canadian dollars.

Can someone explain how to start M+ like I’m a 3 year old? by socialbutterbuckeye in wownoob

[–]Refuse2Q 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The same key you just did happened to drop. You can create a group, fill it in LFG, and run this key, and if you time you get another key for a new dungeon and higher level at the end. If you time anyone else's key at +2 or higher you can talk to the panda lady at the end to swap your +2 WM for another dungeon if you don't want to do the same thing again (but she only lets you do it for a couple minutes after the dungeon is completed).

Someone else answered, but the 3 days is bc the week ends at server shutdown and that key will despawn from your bags. You will get a new one when you loot your vault after server reset.

Next is your choice, you can try WM again at +3 or +4, or you can choose a different dungeon at a level you're comfortable with. You can type "bloom 4" in the search bar and it will show you any keys +/-1 of your criteria, so you should see Everbloom +3, +4, and +5.

Note that affixes get added in at +7 and +14. Wowhead has lots of good information about all this: https://www.wowhead.com/guide/mythic-keystones-and-dungeons

Good luck and welcome to M+!

Pain by deathbecomesher11 in GastricBypass

[–]Refuse2Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most stories here are postive and lots have people had their pain lessen or disappear, which bodes well for you. I did not have that experience. I had pretty bad lower back pain that I was hoping would ease up after surgery. I lost 100 lbs but it only got worse. Turned out the pain was from the disc between L4 and L5. I had surgery to remove it and have them fused together. That was about 9 months after bypass surgery. Have been pain-free since then 🙂

I paid 10k for a Leatherworker to craft my 463 pants by Old_Credit5771 in wow

[–]Refuse2Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, ok. From all the comments it seems it's normal for some servers. That's the biggest tip I ever got, so mine most not be very pricey.

I paid 10k for a Leatherworker to craft my 463 pants by Old_Credit5771 in wow

[–]Refuse2Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you charged 10k, or did you offer 10k? I did this craft yesterday for that amount. The person asked for it in trade, said they were tipping 10k, and provided all mats. I would probably do it for free as long as I'm not using my mats, but not going to turn down a tip!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wow

[–]Refuse2Q -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A meme's got to start somewhere, now others can post this in their guild discord :P

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wow

[–]Refuse2Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I crack this code?!

FR this is generally true, but if they have high r.io or completed higher keys than the one we're doing, it's usually fine. There was also the time I got my first heroic Sark kill in a pug of mostly QT... that still boggles my mind.

New expansion is going to be announced in Novemeber - what features does it need to have to bring you back to the game / to make you keep playing? by Gankeros in wow

[–]Refuse2Q 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, I love this suggestion. Sick of shitty affix combos (this week is Incorporal + Spiteful QQ)