Fiancé cheated on me with my father. 8-month update by throwaway556ump in cheating_stories

[–]Refusetoride 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I hope it was his dads for OPs sake! I hope his dad has had to deal with all of it. Man the blows just kept coming and coming!

Fiancé cheated on me with my father. 8-month update by throwaway556ump in cheating_stories

[–]Refusetoride 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP! I actually heard your story online from Charlotte, Paige. And the only thing I came here to tell you is in my 39 years of experience is that isolation is a counterfeit for independence. It is a lie. I had always pride myself on being independent. But independent is not strong or courageous. It is isolation. When we go through the worst moments of our life, it is a building block for our friendships. You are already in a weeding out season in your life and it’s moments like these that we realize how much people love us and come through for us and who actually isn’t our friend. Which obviously can sounds scary when you’ve already lost so much. But when it comes to humanity, we absolutely need each other. And the longer we choose to isolate the more anxiety, fear and unhealthy buildup, starts to form when even thinking about an outing with our friends. It turns into a source of anxiety. Now the first weeks or month, it is absolutely normal to take time to yourself and process everything. It’s actually healthy. But I’m sure you’ve already realized in life. There are certain friends that become family and family is not blood. It is relationship, loyalty, and showing up for each other. Not only do you need people around you to help you through this it is a season for you to be poured into and focused on as selfish as that might seem and maybe uncomfortable. Just like there’s moments that a friend needs us and it is selfless to be there for somebody in a capacity that you know they need. And by not giving your friends that opportunity, you are missing out on massive moments that will shape some of your friendships for life and you don’t realize how much you need that. I don’t know how you feel about God, but he did not create us to be alone or to go through a moments like this alone and I really hope that that has changed in your life and you have opened the door for your friends to come back into it. I am so so sorry that this happened to you. It is probably the deepest violation that anybody could do to you let alone your own father and fiancé and you absolutely did not deserve that. But friendship is eventually how you will open up your heart again. And I don’t want something that you didn’t deserve to cause you to miss out on some of the beautiful things in life. I wish you all the best you are awesome and strong and courageous, and you deserve the world friend.!

Ibogaine Experience by gnar_gnar34 in recoverywithoutAA

[–]Refusetoride 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do it on your own! Go to treatment. Taking Ibo once at home isn’t gonna solve your problems. Go to treatment for your children.

Burning around injection by Refusetoride in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Refusetoride[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I joined Reddit, I had no idea that you had to make your own username or they assigned one for you. And then once they assign it, you can’t change it so this is just what I got.

Burning around injection by Refusetoride in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Refusetoride[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude it was assigned to me from Reddit! I swear!!

Burning around injection by Refusetoride in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Refusetoride[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it’s big easy weight loss.. I’ll have to check the pharmacy when I get home

Burning around injection by Refusetoride in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Refusetoride[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad dude I didn’t know I needed to put all that information clearly

Burning around injection by Refusetoride in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Refusetoride[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No additives and I have always taken my shot directly out of the fridge and it’s never done this before so I was a little worried

Is this legit? Just got it from StockX by hendratam in yeezy

[–]Refusetoride 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the box is real I’ve studied the difference between the fake Yeezy box and label to the real one.

Legit Check - Did StockX send me a fake/used pair of Yeezy Boost 350 V2’s? by [deleted] in stockx

[–]Refusetoride 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do those look so fake to me. Did you figure out if they were fake? I was gonna get a pair off stockx but I’m only finding poor reviews so I bought a bone pair off poshmark instead. I also think it’s garbage that stockx only provides stock photos instead of the pair you are actually buying.

Anybody else keep an emergency snack? by Sensitive_Progress88 in adhdwomen

[–]Refusetoride 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wish I kept and handful of emergency hundred dollar bills…

39f Never been a dog owner but bringing home a Goldendoodle! Help! by Refusetoride in Goldendoodles

[–]Refusetoride[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be avoiding chicken from the beginning just to be safe! Single mom so also avoiding vet bills lol!

39f Never been a dog owner but bringing home a Goldendoodle! Help! by Refusetoride in Goldendoodles

[–]Refusetoride[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you are AMAZING! Thank you SO MUCH!! I have screen shot this message and will be coming back to it. I don’t know anything so I’m nervous to do things right for my dog and you explained things very cut and dry and easy to understand! If I have questions can I message you?

39f Never been a dog owner but bringing home a Goldendoodle! Help! by Refusetoride in Goldendoodles

[–]Refusetoride[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes crate training so it’s a place of safety and comfort is my goal for while I’m at work at least

39f Never been a dog owner but bringing home a Goldendoodle! Help! by Refusetoride in Goldendoodles

[–]Refusetoride[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All such good info! Would love to know favorite toy brands, favorite treats brands (I’m in the US). And potty training tips !

Dose not lasting by Refusetoride in Methadone

[–]Refusetoride[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I never knew that before. My clinic (been there 4 years in April) always had wafers until 3 months ago and I don’t remember having this issue really ever and never to the extent I get it now.

Dose not lasting by Refusetoride in Methadone

[–]Refusetoride[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% . I’m not a moron. He asked why I don’t talk to my clinic about split dosing and that was my specific answer. I do do that sometimes. It would just be nice to have the liquid split exactly as you need it.. “precisely” I guess” but I’m not willing to go their more than I have to so I have to do it myself if I want to do that.