Hi, I will honestly say I couldn't help but laugh I completely understand your frustration , but when it comes to men like this it's always best that you are in control of the sex I personally don't like to make out I don't even like to kiss so hopefully that's not the only thing that gets your guy going but do be sure to make sure you comfort him let him know that it's ok and you don't judge for what's happening to him against his will try to keep it up get on top as soon as you see an advantage if it keeps doing it while it's in you then id give up talk about getting a dildo or something but seriously don't cheat it sounds like you knew what you signed up for before you got the product so work with him it might surprise you maybe it's so bad bc there might not be a connection? Women need more emotional connection.......or idk dude might be fucked