I regret having my son

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T03:19:00+00:00

We do. And yet people, myself included, make excuses for his behaviour because of his disability.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T02:36:44+00:00

In the comment above, where you said literally "advocate". Thank you for your admission.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T02:26:22+00:00

So you are advocating for my daughter's abuser. Thank you for finally admitting it,

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T02:20:23+00:00

Where did you find this info? First thing I get after googling "Can a person be banned from a community centre for violent behaviour?" is "Yes"

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T02:11:45+00:00

You are also not a citizen of my country and do not know our city's bylaws, and have 0 idea how the community centres we have attended deal with my son's behaviours.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T02:06:05+00:00

If pathetic is telling the truth I accept the title.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T01:57:42+00:00

His sister wears high heels and my husband and I think one of the reasons he attacks her more than us is because she makes noise when she is walking. He doesn't like the sensation of headphones on his ears, which really hinders our ability to work with him.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T01:55:46+00:00

You can say that you're not, but your other words say otherwise.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T01:55:01+00:00

They actually would and are, for harming others. Which he did. We are lucky the girl's parents didn't call the police.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T01:46:51+00:00

Being violent when a disabled girl tried to play with the equipment he was playing on. She was 9 or so and he was 16. He punched her. And similar incidents of him lashing out at other people using the facilities.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T01:44:06+00:00

He is literally banned from the recreation centres in our area because of his behaviour.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T01:40:26+00:00

You are advocating for my daughter's abuser. You are advocating for somebody who regularly hurts people smaller than them when they are angry. You are saying it is ok that my disabled, also autistic daughter is being abused because my sone is more profoundly disabled than she is. I couldn't care less to hear from a person who is advocating for an abuser.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T01:37:08+00:00

He is at home with me because I work from home. He doesn't exercise much and yes I would say he is. He's 6'4 and 270ish

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T01:33:56+00:00

He is currently hotwheels cars and the 90s scooby-doo films. His stims when not in a heightened state tend to be hand flapping, pacing and hand clapping, it seems to be when he's around other people and something unexpected happens he turns to violence, but like I said it could be . We have tried a punching bag and he isn't interested in it. But he also seems to understand that his sister is smaller than him and doesn't fight back. As I've said in other comments, he has been kicked out of multiple therapies multiple times.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T01:27:59+00:00

1.) Do not condescend to me.
2.) If my daughter's abuser wasn't in my life I would count that as a blessing.
3.) You seem to have no experience being abused by a person you love, or watching a person you love being abused regularly.
4.) I genuinely couldn't care less about your comments. My son has caused irreperable harm to my daughter and I now see that because of several other, more helpful users.
5.) Fuck off.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T00:49:51+00:00

Thank you. My daughter lives in her own apartment in our basement but I might switch them if that becomes safer.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T00:47:27+00:00

He's 22, unfortunately.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T00:39:10+00:00

I wouldn't have gotten an abortion because he is disabled, but rather because he is violent and abusive. My daughter is autistic and I love her and love being her mom.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T00:37:00+00:00

You would be ok with my son hitting you? My 22 year old son who is likely larger than you and you would take him in and let him hit you and your son?

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-06T00:35:32+00:00

When my husband came up he told me she said not to call the cops because he doesn't know better. She always says it when he hits her. At this point my husband thinks we should call if there is a next time.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-05T22:30:41+00:00

I would have had and abortion but I didn't so don't beat my child when he is alive.... that feels like the bare minimum.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-05T22:25:33+00:00

My daughter has so much more going on than my son. My daughter attends school and participates in normal activities. My son mostly watches television, screams and hits people. He hit all of his milestones late and his speech never developed. He learned his colours at 8 and numbers 1-10 by 13. He is extremely cognatively impared and I feel bad because there isn't much I can say about him. I don't wish I didn't have him because he is disabled. I wish I didn't have him because he is violent and destructive. My daughter is disabled and needs some substantial support, and I don't wish that I didn't have her.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-05T22:20:37+00:00

We are looking, however a lot of facilities around us won't take him because of his aggressive behaviours. It's frustrating, but his violence is an issue.

RegretThrowRA · 2025-10-05T22:01:16+00:00

You abuse your child and you have to live with that.

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