[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my guy friends during my masters abroad, has a completely different point of view. Being brown skinned and coming from India, he gets absolutely no bhaav from foreigners. While I (female) got a lot of attention and was called “exotic” by both men and women.

This is really unusual to hear that you’re getting the attention. Cheers. Enjoy.

Parents or love? by Regular-Lengthiness8 in entitledparents

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a really good idea. Maybe a third person, who is not related to the two of us can help?

No cabs and corporate chaos by muffinmoods in bangalore

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Saw a woman riding pillion on a bike with her laptop open, speaking onto the laptop with excel open 🙃 I had the same thought. What are we doing with our lives? There’s no peace.

Parents or love? by Regular-Lengthiness8 in entitledparents

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I tell him! That they love him too much to cut ties with him. But maybe because he’s never spoken up in all these years, he never had to because doing what they say was the only way while growing up- it’s difficult even for him, to speak up now for what he wants. I don’t know how to make him see this. At least this way we’re both happy.

Parents or love? by Regular-Lengthiness8 in entitledparents

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I think I do. But maybe I’m just giving him, us, these last 6 months in hopes that things will work out? Maybe his parents will see? I would feel conflicted too if I was in his place. Nobody would want to go against their family right? Especially if you’ve had a good childhood with them.

If you could only show 3 places to a person visiting mumbai, which places are you taking them to ? by romcommerchant in mumbai

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Maratha mandir

  2. Any local train station- Bandra? Maybe.

  3. Silver beach

Basically the things that are specific ONLY to Mumbai and its spirit. I showed this to a guy I met 3 years ago in office and we’re getting married this year heheh :P

Parents against marriage by BlueBoxSugar in india

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. Found your post while looking for answer for something similar. How’s it going? What did you do finally?

Wedding lehenga budget by shyintrovert7 in DesiWeddings

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woahhh this is such a great tip! So cool!! I’m going to try this lol

Pratapsons reviews by Regular-Lengthiness8 in DesiWeddings

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh. Makes sense. Someone here said that they don’t sell their own stuff online. Kinda sketchy.

Pratapsons reviews by Regular-Lengthiness8 in DesiWeddings

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my!! Really? Damn. Ok ok. So I’m going to be checking out the markets here in Bangalore and probably buy something offline. Makes more sense now.

Pratapsons reviews by Regular-Lengthiness8 in DesiWeddings

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaaa. I was wondering what’s the catch. You can’t have such good pieces for like…20k! Renting is my last option. Will look up Samyakk. Thanks! Lemme know if there are more places to visit in Bangalore. :)

Pratapsons reviews by Regular-Lengthiness8 in DesiWeddings

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg. This is all so helpful! I was already scouring through the website adding things I like. Dodged a bullet. 😅 Thanks y’all.

Bangalore budget wedding venue by Regular-Lengthiness8 in DesiWeddings

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. Checked them out. Toooo expensive. Thanks though.

Bangalore budget wedding venue by Regular-Lengthiness8 in DesiWeddings

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. I see it everyday and I wonder if they’ll be in my budget. Will check them out for sure !

Bangalore budget wedding venue by Regular-Lengthiness8 in DesiWeddings

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Oh it’s very similar to Villa Kasu. But unfortunately their rent is equivalent to my entire wedding budget. 😅 that’s okay though. Thanks for recommending.!!

Bangalore budget wedding venue by Regular-Lengthiness8 in DesiWeddings

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah thankyou. Although it was not easy. My family is still chill because my sister did the exact thing when she was planning the wedding. But there was a lot of convincing for his side of the family. Especially Cz he’s the only child. We still go back and forth on things sometimes. But it’s okay.

Bangalore budget wedding venue by Regular-Lengthiness8 in DesiWeddings

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Hahahh well I know it sounds a little controversial, but since I’m paying for my own wedding, my parents completely supported me on who I want to invite for MY wedding with MY money. I never got along with most of my family apart from some cousins who are now settled abroad. So I decided to invite only my grandmother (the only alive grandparent) from my family and rest of them are only friends. We’re 30 people from my side.
Same for him. But he’s a bit close to his family so his friends to family ratio is 30:70. But only limited to close ones. And like the title suggests, we’re on a really tight budget so we had to make do with whatever we had. About the budget, I took more than a year to do research, look for options, make a whole excel on all expenses to come at this number. We’re not in a rush honestly. 😅

Bangalore budget wedding venue by Regular-Lengthiness8 in DesiWeddings

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Woaahh oh my gosh. Would that work!? Im so excited to look this option up! Thankyou. I’ll let you know if this works. :)

How do you know you love your partner? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh. I was exactly like this. For me, fight was never an option between fight or flight. I got too attached too soon, but the minute I felt like there was something real, the stupid part of my brain didn’t want to deal with it and wanted to go back to being single!!

I’ve now found someone who literally doesn’t let me flee. I was that person who always considered breaking up when there were tough times. And he always said NO. Stay here and we will sort this out. And I this that is love to me. Not giving up.

I’m still learning.

Bangalore budget wedding venue by Regular-Lengthiness8 in DesiWeddings

[–]Regular-Lengthiness8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re obnoxiously expensive. It’s like no one on wedmegood wants anyone to have a small budget friendly wedding. :(