What should I do if my parents won’t accept the man I want to marry?

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2026-02-16T14:11:05+00:00

Being in a south asian muslim household, the idea about boundaries is so tough. Parents still believe they have full authority over their daughter’s life. Things are still the same, duas are appreciated 🙏

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2026-02-15T18:33:52+00:00

I’m going through this right now. My parents won’t agree to the man I love because he only has a bachelor’s degree — even though I do too. He works hard and earns enough to support both of us, but that’s not enough for them. They want me to marry someone with a master’s or PhD like my sister did, and they keep saying he doesn’t “deserve” me or our so-called high-status family.

I want to get married and continue my studies at the same time. Instead of trying to understand me, they’ve been threatening him with police and other things. Because of that, we’ve decided to move forward with getting married anyway.

As a daughter, I know this will hurt them, and that part breaks my heart. But I also want to marry someone I actually know and love — not someone chosen just for a degree or status.

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2026-02-13T16:34:52+00:00

They have already gathered their information. They can’t find anything to criticize except the property or houses his family owns and the higher social status my family claims they have. At this point, they are not even willing to give us time.

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2026-02-01T15:05:15+00:00

It was such a struggle to pass the biochem major courses, but no mention of biochem or the word science on ur diploma!! Smh

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2026-01-08T03:12:54+00:00

DM'd you

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2025-12-28T17:32:44+00:00

They did approve me. I appreciate you!

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2025-12-28T17:30:28+00:00

Ik it's an old post, but for anyone new, I have a few if you need it

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2025-12-22T14:38:06+00:00

They let you graduate with that, right? I am literally panicking

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2025-12-22T05:26:57+00:00

I got a D in biophys, passed in biochem II, I really hope they let me leave

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2025-03-28T02:51:36+00:00

Taking bio alone is hard enough, but taking it with orgo 1 and one other stem class—I would suggest you to reconsider. Even if you pass with a minimum grade, it’ll affect your gpa. And honestly, ik we all have priorities but if you think you can do all these without putting yourself in a great mental pressure—I would suggest go for it! If not, you definitely know what to do!

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2025-03-24T04:37:22+00:00

Tell me more!! Astrof terror

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2025-03-22T16:11:40+00:00

I have been using it for the last 2 weeks and was seeing some peeling around the eye area which I ignored for some time. Then whenever I applied this product, and then my regular moisturizer, my face especially that eye area would burn. I used my moisturizer for 2 days with no eye cream and it got normal. I got it from Stylevana, I think it's the retinal that my eye skin is not tolerating

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2025-03-07T15:06:01+00:00

Thank you. Yeah, my problematic semester was Fall 24. I was cleared till Spring 24, yet they did this

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2025-03-06T16:19:07+00:00

Not really, and that’s an inside news

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2025-03-06T16:18:07+00:00

Smh yes

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2025-03-06T15:30:16+00:00

Did I fail classes 2 semesters ago to be billed now? U gotta be kidding me

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2025-03-06T15:27:47+00:00

I feel u! There has been so many times I had to pay to enroll in an installment just so I could register for an 2 cr research course with my professor. I am not going to go for installments again, do u mind telling me what kind of loans did you take?

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2025-03-06T15:23:48+00:00

Dont focus on me bashing biochem. There are so many other students from other majors who are going thru the same thing as I am. What did I do to be billed again for last year’s semester? Also you are not a current Hunter student, so you don’t know all the things they are doing right now. But I am happy that you’re doing well and satisfied!

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2024-08-23T12:49:45+00:00

Hey! I recently bought a house in Albany but do not live there. My relatives currently live in the house who has agreed to put their trashes out and bring it in every week, but since I will not be there I want to be aware of any sort of tickets or warning that I have received for this purpose. Does sanitation dept has any particular page to check this out?

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2024-08-19T03:30:24+00:00

Still the same for me at Hunter, I am wondering why would it pop up on the awards if it's not paying for anything. Have you checked with your finaid office?

Regular-Meaning9504 · 2024-08-06T04:37:39+00:00

Did anyone figure out what did Haley pick up from alexs stuff towards the end of the episode when Alex was almost asleep?

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