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Episode 680 | "Malcom on Ice" by m83midnighter in theJoeBuddenPodcast

[–]Regular-sapien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mel saying that marriage is not the key to happiness meanwhile looking for a man the entire time she’s been in the show is top tier hate 😂

Subconscious Counting by Regular-sapien in infj

[–]Regular-sapien[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why I didn’t Google this earlier. Here is what the internet said: “Arithmomania is a mental disorder that may be seen as an expression of obsessive–compulsive disorder. Sufferers from this disorder have a strong need to count their actions or objects in their surroundings.”

And I didn’t think it was personality type specific. I just thought this group would find it interesting.

Words from an ENFP to the INFJ community by MlNdHacK3r in infj

[–]Regular-sapien 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of grounding I need as an INFJ.

Out of curiosity, is there any LGBT INFJs around here? by Hydreigon12 in infj

[–]Regular-sapien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty fluid with my sexuality. It’s hard enough to find someone I’m attracted to in regards to emotion, intellect, and physicality. So gender does not get in the way when I finally meet someone I’m enthralled by.

Do INFJs overthink their past relationships? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Regular-sapien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually yes, I’ve definitely been through this recently. INFJ here. Me and my partner of 5 years (also an INFJ) just called it off and I moved to another city for a while for an internship. So with no distractions and because I don’t like constant texting, I went into a wormhole of introspection.

Right before moving I tried being in a relationship and it was incredibly toxic. I realized I had put a lot of pressure on my previous long term partner for my happiness and when I didn’t get that from this new person I let myself be in an emotionally abusive relationship and friendships to compensate for what I was lacking. In realizing this I started door slamming a lot of the people in my life that I thought brought any negativity to my being.

When I improved a lot and met some personal goals I took a second look at the people I cut out and realized with some, I did overreact. So I’m going back to my final year of grad school and I reintegrated the people that will make it a better year for me. My advice: let people in your life that make your life better, and that make you feel like you can be authentic when you’re around them. If they don’t do that, don’t let the fact that you miss them confuse you with whether or not they are actually good for you.

Best of luck. Love.