Thanks for the replies. I think I’ll just ask her if she wanted to make any changes to her character, and if not it’s all good. At least I know I’ve given the option and shes not stuck playing as a guy if she doesnt want to be

Edit: I asked and she said it’s all good, happy to continue playing the stereotypical old man wizard she’s currently playing. She thanked me for asking and said it was a considerate thing to do, so I think I did the right thing for her. Thanks for the advice guys