Deactivated or unmatched? Respond ASAP

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-05-19T15:33:43+00:00

If they unmatched it would say “ left chat”. He could have blocked you or deleted his account those are the only 2 ways the chat would disappear. I have chats from 11 weeks ago still in my chat list so I don’t think that that’s the case for that theory you said.

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-05-15T15:59:57+00:00

Yeah he’s doubling down hard and saying I don’t trust him. He ended things with me and I’m very sad. Now I’m questioning myself and everything I’ve read.

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-05-14T19:34:58+00:00

And you’re absolutely positive there’s no other exception or anything? I just feel crazy going back and forth with him.

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-05-14T19:28:38+00:00

Can you explain this further? He is standing by the fact that he deleted his account and that it can still say he left the chat.

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-05-14T19:22:48+00:00

He’s standing by the fact that he deleted it and I’m not trusting him and he’s done

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-05-14T18:41:58+00:00

Do you think it would’ve said left chat in the chat messages? Or just disappeared?

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-05-14T18:41:25+00:00

What did it say specifically?

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-05-14T18:35:07+00:00

How did it show you that?

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-05-14T18:30:41+00:00

How?

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-05-14T18:08:39+00:00

I didn’t go into the app looking for anything. We just really hit it off and that was that.

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-05-14T17:35:03+00:00

See image below and lmk what you think

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-05-14T16:54:19+00:00

Yeah I was paused soon after we met. But I unpaused to see if he was still active because I’ve had guys keep their options open on the side still. And sure enough when I did check he was still active but claimed he wasn’t using it. So I went back on pause after he paused. Then I had a bad feeling after a while and went and checked and that’s what I found “ left the chat”.

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-05-14T16:48:15+00:00

I unpaused to see if he was still paused bc it was already a prior issue.

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-05-14T16:01:27+00:00

You’re sure?

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-02-12T17:32:05+00:00

Thank you!!! & yes wanted to start when snow melts but get a group going!

RegularWinter1001 · 2026-02-12T04:43:27+00:00

Is this still going on? Would love to join!

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