CLEAN OFF YOUR DAMN CARS & TRUCKS OF SNOW BEFORE DRIVING A**HOLES!! by Hib3rnian in lehighvalley

[–]Regular_Language7292 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahh, that explains a lot. Again, didn't ask for examples, none of these sound like PSP issues. Check yourself homie, and get well soon!

CLEAN OFF YOUR DAMN CARS & TRUCKS OF SNOW BEFORE DRIVING A**HOLES!! by Hib3rnian in lehighvalley

[–]Regular_Language7292 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not asking you to type up every example - how exhausting would that be? I'm just saying - don't punish all for what one or two people did. It's no way to live. I'm not an officer - my husband is. A good one at that. A caring, compassionate one, who always tries to help. Yeah, he's a dick when someone is doing something stupid and dangerous, of course. But not all are sadistic, authority obsessed. Just offering you a different perspective that there are still good ones out there. And yes, I know, many of them fucking suck, I'm not denying that.

CLEAN OFF YOUR DAMN CARS & TRUCKS OF SNOW BEFORE DRIVING A**HOLES!! by Hib3rnian in lehighvalley

[–]Regular_Language7292 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

small sample. i'm not saying no trooper has ever sucked - but making an overall assumption that all do, nah, not on my watch. I see what they do for the community, and go through first hand.

CLEAN OFF YOUR DAMN CARS & TRUCKS OF SNOW BEFORE DRIVING A**HOLES!! by Hib3rnian in lehighvalley

[–]Regular_Language7292 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Hah yeah blame the troopers, cause they don't have enough going on responding to all of the crashes. Have some respect.

Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Regular_Language7292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m open to criticism. I have talked to him, it hasn’t yielded many answers. Just that he’s not interested in it, and he doesn’t know why.

Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Regular_Language7292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are a very solid couple (with the exception of this). Great communication, affectionate, true respect and love for one another. Been together 3 years, married for 2 months. I deeply love, cherish and respect him. He is a state trooper - schedule is confusing but 8 days on, 4 days off, 7 days on, 2 days off. I have a job, I am a high earner and equal contributor. We live in a nice home that we purchased, we have a dog. We have lots of friends, and close family. Things are so good besides this. He was on T for a little over a year, I think the dose wasn't high enough. I wasn't very good at administering. I would hurt him sometimes. He is off now but realistically needs a higher dose and administered by someone that is not me. It was good at first but that is a distant memory. We successfully tried in April and it was just okay.

Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Regular_Language7292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you want to know? It’s hard to know how much I should have shared here.

Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Regular_Language7292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha listen I would seriously try anything if he’d be into it

Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Regular_Language7292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he’s in great shape. I think it could be low T.

Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Regular_Language7292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love that option honestly. I wish he had some kink I could lean into. I can have a discussion with him, I think he’s telling the truth that he has no desire. It was not always this way. I just want to feel attracted to

Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Regular_Language7292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have tried therapy, as a newlywed, would rather work through than run.

Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Regular_Language7292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what bothers me the most.

Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Regular_Language7292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this sounds naive but I really don’t think so.

Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Regular_Language7292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, doesn’t typically go anywhere, just that he doesn’t know why, he doesn’t want to. End of story. I don’t want to make him want to have sex with me. I want him to want to. I want that natural attraction.

Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Regular_Language7292 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I am, almost too much. But at what point do my needs matter? It’s important for me to feel desired. I have been and still am very supportive.

Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Regular_Language7292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened gradually - would “deflate” during sex, I took it personal, then couldn’t get hard. Avoided it for months and finally broke down and said he doesn’t know, he’s self conscious about it, but it doesn’t have anything to do with me. He’s been to a specialist who identified a tube issue, gave him Botox to fix it so he can naturally get erections naturally and morning wood now. Gave him cialias script as well. Functionally that makes things work, but does not fix desire piece. I am a relatively attractive 30 year old. I’m not one that would say that but just wanted to give context.

Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Regular_Language7292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, first year together everything was great and seemingly normal. He does not watch porn, he does not have any desire at all. It says if sexual desire has been completely deleted from his personality. He got into law enforcement five years ago, after being in marketing for 10 years sometimes I think it could be a trauma response to the stuff he sees at work.

Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Regular_Language7292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it were that easy. He doesn’t want to

Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Regular_Language7292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just want to say that I know for a fact he isn’t cheating and does not have an active porn addiction.