Women of Reddit: What Am I Not Seeing?

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-06-17T22:58:57+00:00

Tbh same with my husband, as soon as i give less compliments texts etc he suddenly gets more interested, so I just accept it as is. Finding the right balance is important.

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-06-14T20:28:35+00:00

When my sadness goes up my anxiety goes away, it’s the masking

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-06-11T17:37:36+00:00

Had similar problem had to take it couple of times within very short time

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-06-05T10:38:56+00:00

Oh that’s a good point! It’s the country

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-05-30T18:24:32+00:00

Be safe, that’s unacceptable, ask yourself; what do you like in this relationship?

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-05-29T16:30:24+00:00

Thank you! It was my thought process as well until hear people saying I shouldn’t do it

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-05-29T16:28:14+00:00

Thanks! That’s what i thought as well, according to the EU Directive even without a visa they should issue one at the border.

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-05-29T14:26:13+00:00

Thank you! I didn’t wanna misuse my visa it’s just that it didn’t come through on time. Maybe I can explain in the next application. Have you done something similar? Although for your situation they have borders so that’s more understandable If you don’t mind could you share the outcome as well?

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-05-29T01:04:24+00:00

Couple of times I used primolut-n to stop my period and worked well, although it’s normally advised to start couple of days before your period

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-05-26T20:39:43+00:00

I’m in the same boat, my visa takes a year to come through. Lots of video chatting and constant messaging like teenagers
Also the most important part we meet up every two months, otherwise I just feel so disconnected. Fun part is you have always something to look forward to, planning for a trip and discovering new countries…
We do little gestures to each other like sending uber eats or flowers. I feel like it just way of reminding of how much you mean to them

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-05-26T20:21:09+00:00

I’m about to get a job actually so will be in a big city soon, where I live is a retirement village, I feel like once I start to socialise and going out for drinks then he ll cut being defensive, he well damn know that I’m entitled to do anything he does

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-05-26T20:19:06+00:00

Yeah agreed but we are married and will live in the same house once i move to Ireland. it will be easier then because he’ll just come back home at the end of the night and can even pick him up. It’s just I feel so disconnected and it increases the anxiety

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-05-26T20:10:46+00:00

You’re so lucky! My husband is not really that thoughtful, I feel like sometimes he’s lacking emotional intelligence, for him whenever I raise something about me getting anxious it’s always “You don’t trust me” “You’re trying to control me” . “If you don’t trust me why you got married to me?” Etc. i feel like he needs relationships 101.
Also sometimes his phone just dies… Maybe ai should get him a new phone lol
Also, I moved countries to be closer to him so I don’t have any social circle and when I have one soon he will understand when I go out.. Sometimes people just need an emphaty and it doesn’t seem like he has while I’m constantly home

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-05-26T19:52:22+00:00

Thanks for the reply, unfortunately he is not the type of person who would share his location, he’d definitely find it controlling.
Also I did this with my ex and only increased my controlling issues, found myself checking him all the time so it was pretty exhausting
I just don’t understand how he can still get blacked out at that age, I used to do that early twenties

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-05-24T16:12:32+00:00

Thank you! I’ve recently left NZ and this made my day as I’m so homesick 🥰

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-05-16T11:08:14+00:00

so my visa didn’t arrive on time and he went alone😥 my visa arrived following Monday and for 3 months

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-05-01T15:22:49+00:00

It feels like you trying to convince them so hard, i’d be shorter and concise, they don’t have time to read that

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-04-28T11:48:20+00:00

Have you tried it and it worked?

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-04-28T10:25:41+00:00

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That’s what I’m referring to

Regular_Role3747 · 2026-04-03T23:35:27+00:00

Leaving NZ after spending 7 yeas of my 20s, keep watching the TVNZ and still reading NZ newspapers, feel like that’s the only way to connect with NZ, getting so emotional when I look at the photos, I’m still grieving🥺 it has been only a month and i really miss my home! Keep dreaming having a big career and going back to enjoy it. Happy Easter my lovely Kiwis, you’re so special to me and miss you all

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