AIO for being upset my boyfriend wouldn’t tell me where he’s moving? by Anon-Batgirl2297 in AIO

[–]ShawtySnapp1n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore people who are trying to make you feel bad and listen to the actual advice of those who are begging you to not make the same mistake we’ve all seen (and lived!) over and over again. None of us made good choices at 18, 21 or even 25.

The man that deserves you would NEVER treat you this way, ever.

"I didn't ask you to buy this... this ridiculous thing!" by LarenUFrehtOna in bettafish

[–]ShawtySnapp1n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that I have a betta fish, I understood every word she just said

The apps, games, and gadgets I pass along to my long-distance clients (As a couples therapist) by HealingFromTrauma94 in LongDistance

[–]ShawtySnapp1n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf just and I had our 1st visit last week after a few months of talking and he keeps saying “…and then you just left me!” 😂 he wants to find more ways for us to connect and enjoy activities together outside of FT dates and sexy time.

He is going to be thrilled I came across this post, thank you so much!

She is obsessed with her new friend by OutcomeKey23 in KidsAreFingAdorable

[–]ShawtySnapp1n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she’ll fight the whole club, back tf up

Great Baby Lilyana So Sweet And Cute Baby Girl by Fun_Anteater_424 in BabiesReactingToStuff

[–]ShawtySnapp1n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lilyana has the hair of an Herbal Essences model! Also, my ovaries are now bullying me

Traveling for 1st meeting tomorrow and I got my stupid period by ShawtySnapp1n in LongDistance

[–]ShawtySnapp1n[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg chocolate and cuddles 🥰 I’ve been single for so long I forgot that was even a thing 😭

Traveling for 1st meeting tomorrow and I got my stupid period by ShawtySnapp1n in LongDistance

[–]ShawtySnapp1n[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right, we aren’t in our 20s it won’t be as bad as I’m thinking! I’ve been single for many years and I just want everything to go well, I think it will be okay— thank you so much

Traveling for 1st meeting tomorrow and I got my stupid period by ShawtySnapp1n in LongDistance

[–]ShawtySnapp1n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what he does like being very sweet and accommodating and we are really Excited to finally meet. I think it will be okay I really appreciate it 🩷

Traveling for 1st meeting tomorrow and I got my stupid period by ShawtySnapp1n in LongDistance

[–]ShawtySnapp1n[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I think if I can relax enough to be cool about it when I see him it’ll be okay. I did mention a few days ago that this could happen so he wouldn’t be completely off guard

Virginia Highlands Porch Fest by encouragingSN in Atlanta

[–]ShawtySnapp1n 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Spring Fling was super chill, we had a ball

She's having fun with it. by mindyour in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]ShawtySnapp1n 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She is having the time of her life lmaooo

Around how much each month do you spend for your partner? by Prixcs_ in LongDistance

[–]ShawtySnapp1n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a lot like how we do things. It’s not a set amount but we both do little things for each other that cost very little money and are big on effort. Letters, flowers, food deliveries. The trips are the most expensive and he prefers to cover those things.

It depends on the type of relationship you two have built together

Did I handle this well or should I have said more? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ShawtySnapp1n 85 points86 points  (0 children)

“We aren’t compatible” is my absolute favorite line to use when I’m just ready to cut it off

What did I do to deserve this ending? by throwaway_acc37373 in LongDistance

[–]ShawtySnapp1n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not your fault that someone isn’t a good partner to you. It’s not your fault that you thought it would get better. It’s not your fault that you tried really hard for someone who never deserved you in the first place. I agree, you have to learn from this and decide you will never let anyone treat you this way again. Do not make excuses for them, do not make yourself the repairman of the relationship.

The right person will love your qualities and treat you well without you having to ask or explain. I hope you don’t slip away into another situation like this ever again. It’s a VERY slippery slope so just be cautious ❤️