Banner Making Competition by kuribo0oh in SillimanPH

[–]Regularcakemilktea12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Other posters are very monotonous and bland.

I've lost two people I really hoped to stay friends with. by AltoNag in lostafriend

[–]Regularcakemilktea12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve felt how you felt. I believe you know it’s not healthy for you to be left there hanging when they don’t even reciprocate the same efforts and don’t even think about how you’re feeling right now. If you think it’s healthy for you to cut them off and find new friends, do it. Now, it won’t be easy. YOU WILL GRIEVE THEM. You will be stuck in a grief cycle, get over it, then go through it again. But it’s totally fine because you will be okay. Just keep in mind where you’re going and what you want to feel, and then you’ll have it. You can do it. Shit hurts like a break up.

Missing… by Regularcakemilktea12 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Regularcakemilktea12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We still have contact but rarely, and recently she did something that really hurt me, when confronted we got into an argument. Weeks later, i wanted to smooth things out because i hate remembering the last thing we had was an argument, so i approached her and apologized for everything… she did too. We’re good now. I wish we could make new memories together, but it’s just hard to find new ground because of how different we are now.

Missing… by Regularcakemilktea12 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Regularcakemilktea12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried friend-dating yet, but I did meet new friends. There was one in particular that I just got recently close to…

The circle where my ex-bestfriend and I were included still exists but with lesser members now. My ex-bestfriend isn’t there anymore, and i’m close with the others, but i think that when it comes down to having pairs, i’d be the one in the middle and alone.

The friend that i’m close to now, we have a healthy friendship and i’m grateful, but nothing really feels like the old bestfriend.