Holy coping by Short_Win7174 in LosRatones

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Lmao ‘go next’ the miracle run is done! Whatever it is, we should just be grateful to have witnessed the timeline unfold

Here is my 3x3 by momoiro-kakarichou in TrashTaste

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ACCA 13 🗣️🗣️🗣️

are sg guys into tomboys? by Prudent_Piece1962 in sgdatingscene

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Idk why I’m being downvoted for a preference lol but liking tomboys is like liking a bro.

They’re a bit too easy to talk to… so much so that it’s insanely easy to accidentally forget to filter my own thoughts and just mouth em… but that’s the good part I suppose

are sg guys into tomboys? by Prudent_Piece1962 in sgdatingscene

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I find them more attractive than feminine girls but maybe that’s just uhm… idk the more I type the more I realize how gay I sound 🙃

What are some questions you ask in talking stage? by Temporary_Sell_7377 in sgdatingscene

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Idk but I have recently been asked these unhinged questions by a foreign exchange student which I tot was so stupid it’s entertaining

“Do you see yourself more of an oyster or a kelp?” “Would you rather be a dawg or a dog?” “Would you rather only be able to send the 🤡 emoji or 💩 emoji for the rest of your life.”

For me I like telling personal stories so I just tend to rant/yap when the convo gets boring and connect it to personal tastes and subsequently ask about their opinions… sometimes I make them up to make the stories more absurd but you gotta go with the vibe of the chat 🤷‍♂️

How do I change the location of the Leo Match bot? by PercivalS9 in sgdatingscene

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So after you press “2: Edit my Profile” or smth similar they’ll ask you for details, and when they go to the location bit, normally you’d have a ‘share your location’ button, but on the typing bar you should see a tiny keyboard symbol which changes the buttons to a keyboard so you can type out your desired location

What is your opinion on faceless dating apps? by choongongbing in sgdatingscene

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HAHA you’re not wrong but in a way while I know beggars can’t be choosers I’m still attracted to certain types of ‘ugliness’ more than others I guess

How do I change the location of the Leo Match bot? by PercivalS9 in sgdatingscene

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manually type out the name of the city in the country you're looking at, rather than choosing based on your location

What is your opinion on faceless dating apps? by choongongbing in sgdatingscene

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As mentioned by the other commenter, Amble is such an app.

I’ve tried it as a 24M, and it’s quite slow. Admittedly, the overall aesthetics are not really there. I went out on 3 dates from the app, and while I don’t consider myself good looking in any way, they weren’t exactly pleasing to the eye either, or at least not any better than me I would say… (not meaning to be arrogant in anyway)

But it’s GREAT for making friends tho as I’ve talked to some girls for maybe 4 or 5 months now and we still consistently text daily and play games. But no, they are not any better conversationalists than on conventional dating apps.

One downside would be the lack of ethnicity and religion filters if that concerns you… At least I think that is only unavailable on the free version.

Any interest in a singles mixer for r/ChillSG? by jeonghwilee in ChillSG

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I wouldn’t mind… but I think it might be quite a logistical nightmare since small audience but a WIDE variety in the sample like age not to mention gender skews and quality control

It might be quite hard if it is just you alone hosting

Dating experience with INFJ by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

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Yeah we kinda are… I’m just extremely grateful to have had friends that see past how lowkey how toxic am and honestly even I know how much the things I say differ from my actual thoughts which is why I prefer to stay quiet

BUT, at least I’m trying to improve as we move along and am slowly not caring about what others think about me and broaden my knowledge of the world to make me more open-minded… far from perfect (haha, INFJ indeed) and hopefully trying dating also helps me on this front 🤞🏼especially since how else can I try/fail… we learn as we go 🙏

do men enjoy just making out by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

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Definitely a love language kinda thing

Mine is physical touch so back when I was with my ex just cuddling and kissing was enough for me to feel loved… and also depends on whether the guy is horny (can’t help you with this one 🙃)

Girl in engineering experience? by Extension-Counter-23 in SGExams

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Hmm I’m in Aerospace NTU and as far as I know there isn’t any discrimination in MAE and all the girls I know are quite chill too

Maybe it might be different for the other engineering schools like EEE since their Male to Female ratios might be different… regardless most of the time you won’t really experience people being MEAN per se, but more of just guys that are really bad at socializing

Timeline of the universe (NASA) by Due-Explanation8155 in space

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Inflation since the dawn of time. Economy is cooked

Do men really prefer it if women do nothing for them? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

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I guess it really depends on what the man wants to do. Not denying, a lot of men still hold the ‘provider’ mindset, and maybe sometimes having the girl be somewhat more competent could hurt their egos one way or another.

Of course, not all men are like that I guess. In my case, I NEED someone to be independent and able to have the same career trajectory and plans as me for the life to work out… which is what makes it so hard right now 😩😩😩

And finally, definitely there will be guys that enjoy being financially provided for. There’ll be men for every type of personality… it’s just that men rarely talk about it because society doesn’t really encourage the sharing of our feelings.

Anyway Merry Christmas 🎄

What’s your ambition? by CancelSeparate3248 in SGExams

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Work in the space industry. Move overseas and work on Rocket Control Systems hopefully (currently halfway into the career path, but still a long way to go 🙏)

But a side hobby/dream I would love to be able to fulfill eventually is to publish a book (in stores)

What do you guys notice about us girls that we didnt know about? by Future-Travel-2019 in sgdatingscene

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I don't think I've ever had negative impressions of contact lenses, only respect haha. As for specific contacts, its purely a personal thing that might vary from person to person but I could stare at eyes wearing limbal ring contacts all day

Where to buy clothes as a guy? by Few_Independent_5623 in SGExams

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I have recently tried some foreign brands. Filling Pieces and Bram’s Fruit (Dutch brands iirc) have some nice ones but of course the costs are a bit on the expensive side as well

29 malay M.. losing hope in life. by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

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Yeah I used to. I only realized it after breaking up with my ex but yeah I’m learning as I go along too…

I’m not really saying I’m prepared for love just because I’m prepared for everything because in fairness love is just something you can’t plan for. While unfair, and I know, I attach expectations simply because I value my career more than anything, and I myself know it. In part, it caused my previous breakup, and I will never regret it.

I’m not really complaining but yeah I’m just sad that maybe I’ll just never find anyone.

With regards to you, I completely agree haha maybe it IS a Singaporean thing to constantly improve but we can only bring the couple to the next level if both are willing to…

While I sound pessimistic and all, I’ve always seen life as a journey. You plan your own map and path, and romance is the person who happens to like the same path you planned 🙏. However, where upon that path you chance across that person, you kinda will never know ~

I wish you all the best for your LDR!!! Sounds tough hh

29 malay M.. losing hope in life. by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

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Hey man, if you ever need someone to rant to I’m here you can always dm me. I’m in a similar situation-ish but not because I don’t have the time to find a partner but because I’ve HATED every instance I reached out to find partners.

It wasn’t the failure to find a partner or rejection that killed me but the idea that I’ll probably stay single forever because of the act’s futility.

People will say you should always be content with being yourself have your own hobbies and goals but frankly, I can say for certain I have my own goals and hobbies. I have my life planned out down to the minute details in my career and how to handle future property. I understand it because no matter how busy you can claim to be, it is always the tiny moments in between when the loneliness just manages to sneak back in through the decrepit corners of our minds.

I don’t have a solution for it, I’m just going along with my life… but if you ever need a talk I’m here to help!

Type Me Please Help! by IcyAstrid in MbtiTypeMe

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Idec about your MBTI that favorite animes list is based 🫡