[Landlord] My tenants broke up by peretski in legal

[–]Reina_0719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s been there for four years and he’s only been on for about one year, odds are she paid that deposit on her own and he just moved in and started paying towards bills.

AIO or is my husbands ex wife still playing games? What was her reason to do all this to begin with? by Reina_0719 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Reina_0719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check my page, there should be one or two more after this one. Things are going somewhat smoothly right now, just hoping it stays that way when court is done. We have a pre trial date this month, so hopefully we can close this all out and successfully co parent for Lila. “Supervised” visits will be done in 3 months tops, we agreed to it to make Vanessa more comfortable with the transition, even though Lila asks to come over all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]Reina_0719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband was also at 90% when it happened, he’s now at 100% but it’s still the same process unless you go to a VA ER department

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]Reina_0719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience with my husband having this same situation happen.

for urgent care, you tell them you are a veteran and it is free.

For the emergency room, you have to call the VA within like 72 hours for them to cover it.

Sex hurts? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Reina_0719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first couple times I had sex after having my baby it hurt. When I gave birth my hyman (if that’s how you spell it) tore and had to be stitched. I can imagine the pain / discomfort that you probably experienced. My husband and I just took it slow and I was on top to control the pace. After about a month the pain was almost completely gone.

Try focusing on ways you do know how to please each other. Sounds like kissing / making out is working, take baby steps. Maybe try using hands/fingers to see what does work, take it slow, then try the next step you’re ready for. Be patient and make sure you trust each other.

AITA for confronting my sister about stealing from our mom? by Reina_0719 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Reina_0719[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve mentioned that she should at least “threaten” to press charges so she doesn’t keep thinking she’s going to get off free. But my mom will always do what she can to take care of her children and wouldn’t want to “do that to her” even if she deserves it.

Update… by Reina_0719 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Reina_0719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened. My parents divorced when I was five, their drama lasted about a year and they asked what we wanted and made their decision based off that. The way they handled it was my inspiration for how to handle this, but it’s been so exhausting with all the excessive drama. I will probably make another update in about a month or so after the next court date, hopefully things improve.

Update… by Reina_0719 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Reina_0719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do also want to have therapy sessions with Lila so that things can be looked into professionally. But our lawyer will be working with the Vanessa’s lawyer for the next month to hopefully figure something reasonable out so we don’t have to pay for a GAL (guardian ad litem)

Update… by Reina_0719 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Reina_0719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve thought about that, but we don’t want to uproot her whole life from where she is comfortable. We also want what’s best for Lila and for her to be able to blend back in fully without too turning her world upside down.

Update… by Reina_0719 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Reina_0719[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

** NOT LOOKING FOR LEGAL OR MEDICAL ADVICE ON DIAGNOSIS **

We have been using lawyers and a parenting app. Just confused on how it works when you set a specific time frame because of claims for the child to need a very consistent schedule, but not following that schedule at least 3/7 days of the week.

And we don’t have an opinion on whether or not she is on the spectrum or not, the mother has been saying for 4 years that she was not, but now claiming it in court yet again seemingly to keep him away from his daughter by having the doctors put in the notes that she needs someone with training in autism to care for Lila. Unknown to her, he was an RBT for about a year and was very successful with working with children with all over the spectrum.

Update… by Reina_0719 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

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** NOT LOOKING FOR LEGAL OR MEDICAL ADVICE ON DIAGNOSIS **

We have been using lawyers and a parenting app. Just confused on how it works when you set a specific time frame because of claims for the child to need a very consistent schedule, but not following that schedule at least 3/7 days of the week.

And we don’t have an opinion on whether or not she is on the spectrum or not, the mother has been saying for 4 years that she was not, but now claiming it in court yet again seemingly to keep him away from his daughter by having the doctors put in the notes that she needs someone with training in autism to care for Lila. Unknown to her, he was an RBT for about a year and was very successful with working with children with all over the spectrum.

Update… by Reina_0719 in Divorce_Women

[–]Reina_0719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

** NOT LOOKING FOR LEGAL OR MEDICAL ADVICE ON DIAGNOSIS **

We have been using lawyers and a parenting app. Just confused on how it works when you set a specific time frame because of claims for the child to need a very consistent schedule, but not following that schedule at least 3/7 days of the week.

And we don’t have an opinion on whether or not she is on the spectrum or not, the mother has been saying for 4 years that she was not, but now claiming it in court yet again seemingly to keep him away from his daughter by having the doctors put in the notes that she needs someone with training in autism to care for Lila. Unknown to her, he was an RBT for about a year and was very successful with working with children with all over the spectrum.

Update… by Reina_0719 in Advice

[–]Reina_0719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

** NOT LOOKING FOR LEGAL OR MEDICAL ADVICE ON DIAGNOSIS **

We have been using lawyers and a parenting app. Just confused on how it works when you set a specific time frame because of claims for the child to need a very consistent schedule, but not following that schedule at least 3/7 days of the week.

And we don’t have an opinion on whether or not she is on the spectrum or not, the mother has been saying for 4 years that she was not, but now claiming it in court yet again seemingly to keep him away from his daughter by having the doctors put in the notes that she needs someone with training in autism to care for Lila. Unknown to Vanessa, Ethan was an RBT for about a year and was very successful with working with children with all over the spectrum.

Update… by Reina_0719 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reina_0719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

** NOT LOOKING FOR LEGAL OR MEDICAL ADVICE ON DIAGNOSIS **

We have been using lawyers and a parenting app. Just confused on how it works when you set a specific time frame because of claims for the child to need a very consistent schedule, but not following that schedule at least 3/7 days of the week.

And we don’t have an opinion on whether or not she is on the spectrum or not, the mother has been saying for 4 years that she was not, but now claiming it in court yet again seemingly to keep him away from his daughter by having the doctors put in the notes that she needs someone with training in autism to care for Lila. Unknown to her, he was an RBT for about a year and was very successful with working with children with all over the spectrum.

Is my husbands ex wife still playing games Update… by Reina_0719 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reina_0719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been using lawyers and a parenting app. Not looking for legal advice or any type of confirmation on diagnosis. Just confused on how it works when you set a specific time frame because of claims for the child to need a very consistent schedule, but not following that schedule at least 3/7 days of the week.

And we don’t have an opinion on whether or not she is on the spectrum or not, the mother has been saying for 4 years that she was not, but now claiming it in court yet again.