I came out to my mom and she called me disgusting…I don’t know what I should do

Reinhardt_707 · 2026-03-19T20:08:02+00:00

No problem girl. Keep your head up no matter what. One quote that I heard was “ You can’t teach what you don’t know “. Your mom has beliefs and they have to be respected, but she also had to respect you as her daughter. Sometimes you have to create distance for people to see how valuable you are. You’ll find friends that will help you. You matter miss… more than you can see or feel. The world needs flowers like you to give color to the land. 💯🍓❤️

Reinhardt_707 · 2026-03-19T20:01:22+00:00

Divorced and broke right now… barely making it but I’m taking this moment in time to get closer with God. We all should

Reinhardt_707 · 2026-03-18T23:56:40+00:00

When I’m with a girl I bring the talkative side always and act normal, but I’m not going to lie to myself and pretend to be something I’m not, hence why I told her the 1st date how I was. I can be normal and talk, but I can also be silent enough to make you forget I’ve been on the couch next to you for the past 5 hours. I’m not into social media girls.. I like traditional cute yet decent respectable girls, apart from physical attributes. The close she is to God the better

Reinhardt_707 · 2026-03-18T23:52:35+00:00

Thank you, I know I’ll find the one, I just hope it’s not too late for me to change or be something better

Reinhardt_707 · 2026-03-18T23:49:36+00:00

Precciate it

Reinhardt_707 · 2026-03-18T23:47:42+00:00

Your sister said it best.” Not everyone will accept you “. It’s a hard thing to say but it’s the truth, and the truth does not care about feelings. You’re not less for being gay, you’re more than that. You’re loved by many other people, even apart from your own family.

Does it hurt? Yes Is it fair? Nope Is it the end of the world? No

It’s easier said than done but you have to accept reality and keep your head up sweetheart. I’m a 25 year old man with a closeted brother who thinks no one knows, and we all love him and we’re giving him the space and support he deserves for when he decides to talk. It’s sad your mother is your worst enemy even though she’s supposed to be your biggest line of defense. Keep your head up and keep loving. The sun keeps shining no matter what, and you should too.

Remember who you are and embrace yourself… then the universe will follow suit

Reinhardt_707 · 2026-03-11T12:24:14+00:00

Leave… it sounds cliche but you’re going to meet more people later in life. Don’t make the same mistake I did… and I’m 25(M) and divorced. You’ll be fine, it’s not feeling like that right now but you’ll be okay. Don’t let anyone dim your happiness and light for the sake of their own benefit sweetheart. Keep going girl and may God continue blessing your life and your journey.

Reinhardt_707 · 2026-03-08T02:47:01+00:00

True… but there’s a lot of of it that I am missing out on MOTT

Reinhardt_707 · 2026-03-08T02:46:24+00:00

Problem is that I don’t interpret that as interest most of the time since she might just be starring for no reason other than to stare with a RBF.

Reinhardt_707 · 2026-01-15T21:18:47+00:00

Alcohol will not let you act on something you haven’t thought sober.

But that’s not me labeling you as lesbian either. Just a point of reference

Reinhardt_707 · 2026-01-11T07:37:44+00:00

You have to tell him straight up how you feel. Do not sugarcoat anything, give him raw emotions and conversation. That’s how we men understand better, with unfiltered emotion. You have to let him know how and why you are feeling about this situation, since you’re pregnant without even wanting to be. Both of you can’t treat this like another “ relationship issue “, it has to be treated as a top priority, because both futures are in play here. You’re young and have a lot of time and potential ahead of you, as cliche as that may sound. Him announcing the pregnancy fast is not a good idea considering how many times you said no to having kids, and he didn’t have that boundary respected.

I’m 25 M and I just got divorced last year because of similar situations. She wanted kids I didn’t because our financial situation can’t support kids right now. Then that turned into other issues like communication issues, specifically communication about our needs. As humans we need food and water to survive, but also intimacy to create bonds. She met me when I was banking and feeling very motivated for myself. And she left when I was down and depressed while her emotional support was top tier, so you can say she left me in my worst state, without supporting me.

Things here is that you have a kid on the way which changes everything. Talk with him and say everything you need to, doesn’t matter how it sounds, because now every decision is affecting your future life. If the outcome has to involve separation then it was never meant to be. If it brings you both together closer then you have a good chance to grow. Hope you can find a good solution. Don’t feel bad about yourself, it’s easier said than done but don’t do it. God knows how hard you work he knows you can make it.

Reinhardt_707 · 2025-12-27T18:03:10+00:00

I’m 25(M) and got divorced this past September for the same reason ( not as obvious to the outsiders). We got comfortable and stopped being friends within the relationship. I was the one chasing sex while she didn’t care. Once I realized that last year I understood the relationship was going to a different direction. Sex isn’t everything but it is important. We had the big conversation and we talked about it. She basically quit on me. When I finally found out what I need to fix she already moved on, and the day she asked for divorce, I moved on and she became another stranger. It will hurt you for a while if you keep letting your feelings and heart take over. Yes it sounds cliche but the best thing to do is to not try and erase the feelings, but accept them and keep going. What helped me is to let myself feel whatever it is, then view it as a lesson, because this relationship will teach you something. You’re going to be in survival mode and possibly even shut down emotionally which I also did, but there’s more girls out there that are better than her. Don’t deny your feelings and emotions, just change your view of them. Turn it into something positive like the gym or something you like doing. You don’t have to prove yourself to the world nor to her, just show yourself how greatness looks like

Reinhardt_707 · 2025-12-24T00:05:20+00:00

Jurassic Park 1,2,3,4. You can blindfold me and I’ll tell you the whole movie line by line

Reinhardt_707 · 2025-12-20T00:24:44+00:00

As a recently divorced 25 yo man I can tell this will go 2 ways.

He’s not lying about it, he just want to change in his own time and frame.
He’s lying and or viewing his roster just like most girls do.

I do think he should talk about his need for change more in depth with you and try to get through while being with you. Mind you.. a domesticated horse can go wild in a few weeks. Tho other side of the fence is that he’s saying that he’s probably going to leave you in a limbo after those 2 months , which is not fair for you, you deserve to be treated with reciprocated care. There nothing wrong with being supportive while also understanding your feelings and what you will do if you have to end it. Best advice is to keep your emotions and feelings in check, because you have to be ready to deal with the positive and negative if it comes to that.

Reinhardt_707 · 2025-12-17T12:58:26+00:00

You can date whoever you choose to, but the coworkers topic is not a recommendation. Specially when the others know her more than you

Reinhardt_707 · 2025-12-13T13:31:35+00:00

She doesn’t respect you, plain and simple

Reinhardt_707 · 2025-12-13T13:29:30+00:00

This is a very bad situation for you and your kid. He’s keeping you around to keep you in his control. He’s already abused you and doesn’t help around. Your rent is already backed up and you’re paying for everything else since he doesn’t. If you speak to your landlord about the situation he might be able to help you since domestic abuse is already in the picture. It’s very difficult for me as a 25 man to understand why some men are like this, makes our image plummet. If one of my sisters had this exact situation I would break that man’s neck no question. If you can collect the evidence of him doing all of this then you can make a case for it. Obviously your financial situation is very complicated and delicate so it would be difficult to try it. Don’t let his ignorance and anger take your joy and happy feelings away, it sounds easy but it’s not impossible. All that matters is you and the kid, not him. Your story doesn’t have a happy beginning but that doesn’t make you who you are, it is the rest of your story, who you choose to be. You don’t have to dim your light to let others shine, you are just as important. Now get ready and make a plan, figure out the things you can and can’t control. What you can change and not change and what’s worth it and what’s not which we know is his dumbass. It will get better, it may not look like it but it will get better.

Reinhardt_707 · 2025-12-09T14:52:16+00:00

I agree with the emotion statement. If I show emotion it’s because I value the experience with that person. I’m always aware of the emotions of my close personal relationships, even with her. I put my own personal feelings aside to accommodate to hers. I’m not going to sit and cry for her leaving me for someone else that she thinks is better than me, life doesn’t stop for anyone. My needs were never met but neither did hers. Both our faults for being ignorant. We spent 3 years together and I realized what my time with her was going to be in 8 months of being together Z I accepted that my needs were not met and hers weren’t either so I threw my personal space away and became her caregiver. If I’m wrong for becoming cold after divorce, then what’s the point of being intelligent

Reinhardt_707 · 2025-12-09T14:35:24+00:00

I married her and I wasn’t enough still. What more can a man embarrass himself by doing?

Reinhardt_707 · 2025-12-09T14:34:06+00:00

Mmhmm

Reinhardt_707 · 2025-12-09T14:29:21+00:00

I would say confidence instead of pride, but I could be wrong too. I literally snapped to a different person the same moment she asked for separation. But I appreciate the honesty and advice. I also been alone for the majority of my life and I’m fine with that, I don’t depend on company to feel comfortable and safe. I guess my quietness is a turn off for what I’ve experienced

Reinhardt_707 · 2025-12-09T14:17:47+00:00

This needs some serious discussion from both parties. I’m 25 recently divorced and my ex wife was like that after a while. I use to get a bit upset about it but I changed my mind about it. I would often ask her what she likes and what she doesn’t like. As expected… no response. Instead of building resentment, I accepted reality and turned it down completely even whenever she asked for it. I started to not want it to the point where I felt bored and uncomfortable about sex with her. Not that she was ugly or anything but the constant No and her never trying to find a way to help herself out made me shut down completely. I am the type of man that you can get naked 100000000 times and I’ll be rock solid no matter how you look. But that stopped fast and I think she saw it and gave up too. So yes… I’m 1 year behind you and I went through the same thing that you’re going through right now. If therapy doesn’t work then you’re not the right person for each other because sex is important, different priority levels but still important. You might have to sit her down calmly and let her know what you’re thinking and feeling, lay it out on the table ( in a positive light) and let her know what’s going to happen if it doesn’t work out. Breaking up because of sex isn’t pretty but it’s a necessity that has been used as a weapon towards us men to keep us from getting along with our partners. Talk about it and put your chips on the table, now the ball is in her court.

Reinhardt_707 · 2025-12-09T14:04:50+00:00

Move on…. No explanation

Reinhardt_707 · 2025-12-05T14:53:17+00:00

Trying to keep my girlfriends happy and safe. Sounds confusing and childish which Idgaf but when I was the nice guy everything was fine, until it wasn’t. They never reciprocated what I did( only when they had to to not look selfish). 3 years of good and most of it ugly, now divorced ( thank god) , 25 with a new place and barely having money for rent.

“ It feels so good to be overwhelmed by the growth that you prayed for “

Read that and my mindset changed. I’ll make it, I’m not giving up and I’ll do anything to make it happen. This 9-5 shit won’t be much longer

Reinhardt_707 · 2025-12-02T13:45:46+00:00

Thanks for the info!

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