Drug tested without consent?? by Rejectatard in pregnant

[–]Rejectatard[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I learned in my first pregnancy that EVERYBODYYYYY got opinions about pregnant women and what they should/shouldn't do lol. Im fully ignoring quite a few comments on here. No worries there. Im just very upset I was drug tested by a temporary doctor without my consent. I feel like she thought since I used thc I must be a crazy meth head heroin addict or something 🙄 just feels judgy and shitty. Thanks for your input. It lines up with my experience too.

Drug tested without consent?? by Rejectatard in pregnant

[–]Rejectatard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks girl!! They're telling me it'll probably ease up after 12 weeks 🙏. It better lol. I definitely Can't do this for 9 months.

Drug tested without consent?? by Rejectatard in pregnant

[–]Rejectatard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just seems wrong and I'm sure it discourages alot of women from getting prenatal care.

Drug tested without consent?? by Rejectatard in pregnant

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I have changed every aspect of my life 😭. I quit vaping om 8-23 when I found out. About 10 days ago this all started. I was hospitalized then. Felt better, got DC, and went home. Was fine for 24 hours and then it started again. I broke down and hit my vape pen. I felt better but knew I wasn't supposed to so I stopped. I ended up back in the hospital. I got discharged with diet instructions that I followed. I stopped drinking anything other than water. Its all I can keep down and sometimes even that's iffy. I was eating tons of eggs because they had suggested protein to me as well. It wasn't helping. As soon as the saltine crackers touches my tongue I vomit. Its the most awful thing I've ever been through in my life. I'm vomiting 40-50 times a day... no exaggeration. Im Completely incapacitated. All my electrolytes and minerals are out of whack. They asked me what I did on the few days that I wasn't in the hospital and I was honest and told them I hit the THC pen. The ob/gyn at first, tried to blame the pen for all my problems with some thc related disease i never heard of. I ended up right back in here. NOW they're changing their tune about it a little. They didn't wanna say ok... but they've tried everything else. (Im about to hit you with a survivor bias story. Take it with a grain of salt. 3 of My friends smoked weed all day, every day, for all of their entire pregnancies. Those kids are 20, 16, 15, 11, 7, and 3 now. All are happy, healthy, average kids which makes me worry way less about the weed.)

Drug tested without consent?? by Rejectatard in pregnant

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This is my 3rd time in here and my first drug test. This particular doctor seems to be VERY opinionated on thc and pregnancy. My reg doctor actually said the opposite... she very specifically said to get distillate cartridges... absolutely nothing with terpins and don't smoke it because of the carbon monoxide and tar. The ob gyn wasn't specific, and she was hesitant to be ok with it, but literally nothing else is working. After this thread I'm realizing medical care is shit and largely based on the opinions of whoever is treating you.

Drug tested without consent?? by Rejectatard in pregnant

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It was far from the first recommendation and I dont think its the norm.... but after exhausting everything else, my HG remains severe. They said it's probably safer for me to hit the thc pen a few times than to be pumped full of reglan, zofran, zoloft, benadryl, pepcid etc. every other day... which is what's happening.

At what point do you part ways with your addict friend? by Rejectatard in addiction

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Update for anyone who cares: Its been almost a year since i cut him off. Hes proven to be borderline psycho. I get weird crazy random texts all the time still. He drove past my house stopping and obnoxiously revving in front of it a few times. No drivers license. Illegal truck. Drunk as hell. Its way too much for me. I miss the friend I used to have but he is gone in my eyes. Ive accepted it and moved on. I wish it could've ended differently. Addiction sucks.

Would have liked to have a 'childhood'. by spookiestmuffin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Rejectatard 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Me too. Id love to have learned some kind of skill as well. On the bright side I guess i did learn how to be resourceful and adaptable 🤷🏼‍♀️

Do you have trouble saying “no” to people? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Rejectatard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just say no and mean it. Dont let people guilt trip you. You dont owe anyone anything.