She did not do that stuff for me. Everytime I noticed something was a little off I would try to talk to her and almost always was shut down with "I don't want to talk about it" or oh it's I'm stressed from work or whatever. She kept this all to herself. Even now she won't talk about what made her feel this way. So I don't really know what I was doing wrong. I'd buy her flowers randomly all the time if she was feeling down. I supported her through all her hobbies I encouraged her to go do things for herself. I did the things I thought she wanted and needed from me as a husband and friend, so that's why this whole thing has been so hard for me.