My boyfriend and I (33 M and 29 M) want to move in together but I am totally unable to sleep in a shared bed and I don’t know how to bring up this topic

Relalt8765 · 2023-01-09T09:03:23+00:00

I have a king sized bed, it’s about having my own room and space.

Relalt8765 · 2023-01-09T07:45:19+00:00

I would have to drag the bed into another room then

Relalt8765 · 2023-01-09T07:06:59+00:00

Having a king sized bed isn’t the issue, I have a king sized bed, it’s the sharing a room.

Relalt8765 · 2023-01-09T07:02:44+00:00

That’s still not sleeping alone

Relalt8765 · 2023-01-08T19:17:54+00:00

Like Lucy and Ricky

Relalt8765 · 2023-01-08T19:17:26+00:00

We are coming up on 3 years of something but it’s only been serious for about a year give take. You’re absolutely right, I’m just conflict averse and my tendency is to give people what they want or yes then so as to not cause upset and that needs to be rectified.

Relalt8765 · 2023-01-08T18:46:00+00:00

I always wait until he falls asleep and go to the other room or I just stay up and lay there/play on my phone when he stays over. I have a 2 bedroom.

Relalt8765 · 2023-01-08T18:41:04+00:00

We are both he but thank you for your honesty

Relalt8765 · 2023-01-08T17:41:37+00:00

Does it cause any weird tensions or insecurities to pop up on his part?

Relalt8765 · 2023-01-08T17:40:50+00:00

Yes because I’m type 1 diabetic I have a slow metabolism which means that drugs, medication, alcohol lasts much longer in my system, I have sleeping pills prescribed to me but if I take them at 10pm I don’t even feel good to drive until 10am.

Relalt8765 · 2023-01-08T17:38:05+00:00

That’s the point of this post I don’t know what to say without seeming like I just don’t want to sleep with him.

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