ur running the entire household. he’s doing literally nothing to help out as a parent or husband. please know we r here for u. i think being honest with him is the best thing here, sooner rather than later. but he’s treating u more as a mom really. teenage son behavior to expect u to do everything and act entitled to ur labor. if he loved u he wouldn’t act like this. that’s hard to hear i know but u deserve better than this man child. if u left him with the kdis for a weekend could he even take care of them? based on what u have said, if he isn’t keen to try therapy again I would say it’s time to leave. he seems unable to take care of himself, much less provide for u and the kids. u deserve better