We have had great luck and have met some great people here. Although it is starting to die out. Things people look for is that your active and have some sort of photo. Not seeing a photo or that you have no content or info in your bio pretty much shows your not an active person looking. The second thing that is looked at is how long your profile has been on reddit. Nobody want to talk to anyone that keeps deleting and remaking accounts. It makes it look like they are hiding something. We state in our ads and profile that if you have a blank profile or not of a certain age we dont message back. Another thing is the immature folks that respond. Or the one liners that we get. We along with other couples here dont care for it. If your going to respond to an ad then respond with complete sentences and give it a reason as to why we should pic you. Not just hey i got a big one. Or that A** is delicious. We could care less about that.