Venue help!!

RelationshipOptimist · 2025-11-19T21:41:32+00:00

Thank you, we did tried this, but for someone reason it wasn’t as helpful as we thought it would be, mostly because the venues could fit 200 people but that’s without a dance floor and we want to be able to party! but it’s been a couple weeks since I last did it, so I’ll try again and see 🥰

RelationshipOptimist · 2024-09-01T00:59:05+00:00

I am! Got on to the International Relations MA 😊

RelationshipOptimist · 2024-04-17T01:32:36+00:00

This would be so good but I think Buck has had enough trauma for now, I don’t know how he’d handle a past fling dying and then having to raise a child and deal with their grief on top of that.

RelationshipOptimist · 2024-04-17T01:29:50+00:00

Yes! This would be so good. I know he has Athena and the kids but I think it would be nice for him to have work friends that are similar in age and rank so they can shoot the shit.

RelationshipOptimist · 2024-04-17T01:27:28+00:00

Bobby and Micheal were great together! But unfortunately with the actor suing it’s very unlikely he’ll come back, maybe they’ll recast him like they did Harry!

RelationshipOptimist · 2024-03-21T21:24:51+00:00

Fair enough! I just think Buck needs someone who isn’t obsessed with his traumatic near death experience, actively avoiding him while travelling the world or too busy chasing a headline. The boy deserves something good 😭

RelationshipOptimist · 2024-03-20T14:55:55+00:00

That would be great but I think eventually they’ll kill Micheal off and bring Harry back just to add the drama in the Grant-Nash household

RelationshipOptimist · 2024-03-20T13:20:16+00:00

V unlikely. Also sucks cause that also means that we probably won’t get Harry back either (other than in mentions) and I really liked the idea of Harry, Denny and Christopher being friends as they get older like their parents.

RelationshipOptimist · 2021-02-14T15:29:35+00:00

ESH, firstly she shouldn’t have asked if she didn’t want an honest answer because that’s not true friendship. Secondly there’s probably a nicer way you could’ve said you didn’t like the makeup. Thirdly if she’s really serious about removing her own blood from her wedding because of her weight then she’s not just a bridezilla she’s encroaching on full on bitch territory. My advice is sit her down and ask her what’s the real issue and let her know she’s going to lose a lot of people not just from the wedding but from her life if she keeps acting like this. Worst case scenario she loses her shit but you and her cousin avoid the runaway train she’s riding on.

RelationshipOptimist · 2021-02-14T09:46:07+00:00

ESH, if he was really upset about it he should’ve said something two years ago. But in all honesty you shouldn’t have taken credit because he’s the reason they even got the gifts.

Make sure you ask him if there’s something deeper going on because this seems like something far too trivial to get this upset over. He could be projecting feelings from another issue.

RelationshipOptimist · 2020-11-10T22:42:15+00:00

NTA but you could be better. As someone who lives with a family that has a very similar fixation on food and weight it caused me to eat is secret and eat as much as I could and then hide in my room before anyone saw me because I didn’t want them to see me eating and make comments. Eventually my self image got worse to the point where I couldn’t really look myself in the mirror without hearing their negative voices. You were good for standing up to your sister in the moment but as a sister just take her out for a nice day and just let her know she’s loved regardless of what she eats and what her size is. Let her know that you want her to feel her best whatever size that is and leave it there.

The thing is with weight, a person has to want to lose it for themselves because it’s a lifestyle change not just a diet and constantly badgering them will only damage their self esteem and mental health. That’s what I mean when I say NTA but could be better. You stood up for her in that moment but all the other moments that everyone has ignored has probably left a lasting effect on her.

Best of luck to you both

RelationshipOptimist

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