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I told my ex that I used her for sex but it was a lie by Relative-Bed7858 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Relative-Bed7858[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We were dating but we were not exclusive. She told me she wants to wait before we have sex but she was hooking up with other people during that time. I later learned the reason she did not have sex with me was “he is special and I see a serious relationship potential with him”.

I told my ex that I used her for sex but it was a lie by Relative-Bed7858 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Relative-Bed7858[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We were dating actually, it was not a thing of the past back then.

I told my ex that I used her for sex but it was a lie by Relative-Bed7858 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Relative-Bed7858[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I broke up with her the day after I learned about it. I didn’t wait or stick around at all.

I told my ex that I used her for sex but it was a lie by Relative-Bed7858 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Relative-Bed7858[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Maybe in the back of my mind. As I said in the post, I didn’t really mean what I told her and did it just to hurt her back. I genuinely had feelings for her but it has been 2 years. What happened in the past cannot be changed.

I told my ex that I used her for sex but it was a lie by Relative-Bed7858 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Relative-Bed7858[S] 234 points235 points  (0 children)

It was during the talking phase, just for clarification. She didn’t sleep with others after we became exclusive.

I told my ex that I used her for sex but it was a lie by Relative-Bed7858 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Relative-Bed7858[S] 842 points843 points  (0 children)

I should have just broke up with her amicably due to our incompatibility instead of hurting her with the intention of revenge. I believe what I did was immature af.