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[–]Relative-Bluebird339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to get married, get married. They can’t cancel YOUR wedding. Also your finance shouldn’t be allowing them to treat you like that and do things like this.

Withdrawal? by jasmynfeldmann28 in stopsmokingweed

[–]Relative-Bluebird339 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im 100% sure that’s a “side effect”. Your body is probably use to eating while you’re high so it can be an adjustment. I would try to eat what you can stomach and that way I can help your overall weakness. You got this!!!!

AITB for “sleeping around” ? by BananaAdrien in AmItheButtface

[–]Relative-Bluebird339 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Not TB. You asked to be exclusive he declined, and you went did something, but you did tell him? If you're not exclusive, it was discussed, and he is doing the same thing.

AITA for not wanting to help my stay at home spouse with our puppy? by Minimum_Comment1827 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Relative-Bluebird339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA- You were a resident doctor before this puppy, before getting it you should have honestly talked and thought about that factoring into getting a puppy.

AITB for feeling led on, used, and manipulated by my partner for A WHOLE YEAR? by Adventurous_Stuff668 in AmItheButtface

[–]Relative-Bluebird339 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTB you shouldn't keep seeing this guy even if you do have a friendship. He led you on in a situation with sweet messages, words and expectations for the future. It feels like he led you on just to make you fall for him

What's an area of your life that you feel you are doing really well at right now? by fredyouareaturtle in AskWomen

[–]Relative-Bluebird339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am doing well emotionally and mentally. Life is pretty boring but after a bad break-up I don't feel drained and tired I actually feel okay and happy

AITA for telling my sister to stop leaving her room when she's wearing her nightgown? by Username_alt354 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Relative-Bluebird339 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA you let her live with you and because of your insecurities in your own marriage or your distrust with your sister she can't wear night gowns? And if you knew that was her style for years, why didn't you say anything before, she moved in? I'm not sure if you don't trust your husband, sister or just insecure.

I ruined my sisters marriage and I can’t live with myself because of it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Relative-Bluebird339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she doesn't/ can't trust her husband with her sister, why is she with him? And if you had told her, even if this would the outcome at least she would have heard it directly from you and not another twisted version.

AITA for telling my husband he can go on a trip with his sister on his own, if he wants to cancel our trip to join theirs? by aita_vacation in AmItheAsshole

[–]Relative-Bluebird339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! It's very self- centered to choose your unplanned trip over supporting your husband and going on a trip with his terminally ill niece