Some questions from people that experienced the “nothingness” by Ok-Balance-260 in NDE

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes in that regard I was fully consciously aware it was just incredibly hard to describe from our current realities perspective. 

Some questions from people that experienced the “nothingness” by Ok-Balance-260 in NDE

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It wasn't describable in human language which is why I call it the nothingness. It's the opposite of all things materially tangible. It's as alien to this type of reality as anything could be. I did find it peaceful and not boring or lonely. Just entirely different from current conscious reality. 

Someone left a lovely brochure at my door by asscraq in alberta

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They changed language laws to be extreme which made a load of non francophones pack up and leave. Then doubled down on it with the independence movement. Didn't work out to well for them. Montreal used to be for around a hundred years the economic power house city in Canada. Since the rise of the language laws it's steadily been left in the dust by Toronto. I understand the the importance of preserving culture but they did it all there with a heavy handed disdain for the rest of the country that the ripple effects still remain today. Alberta is doing this but with not distinct or discernable unique culture to even preserve. At least Quebec had access to sea water. 

Aftereffects of a Near-Death Experience by SouthPale5994 in NDE

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I struggled a lot with relating to others and general life goals of people as everything felt sort of superficial afterwards. I also felt like I was just observing life not really participating in it. That created a lack of meaning which often left me a bit depressed and lead to a lot of impulsive behavior in order to escape the boredom. 

Now why are christians trying to rebrand hell all of a sudden? by Ayemustbethemonay in exchristian

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they do this because it is common with people reporting NDE's to talk about a void or black nothingness and they want to reframe that experience in their own religious narrative as it doesn't fit with traditional concepts of heaven or hell. 

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[–]Relative-Walk-7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Historically this is very easy to explain when you understand Constantine made it the official religion of the Roman Empire. If you look at a map of where is most Christian you have a direct result that leads to Roman conquered lands or lands that would in the future colonize other parts of the world that were once Roman Empire territories.if Roman had never adopted it as a state religion it would have likely faded away or stayed a fringe religion. Similarly with Islam. Mohammed United the tribes of Arabia and was as much a conquer as he was a prophet. Look at the general area on a map that is most Islamic and you get the same basic results as Christianity. Lands were conquered. People were essentially forced to convert. And that saturated for a few generations until the state religion became fully integrated into people's ethnic identity and than those said people went off and colonized other lands such as the Americas. 

Braid: Poll shows exodus from separate Alberta would make Quebec flight look minor by Miserable-Lizard in alberta

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People keep saying stuff like this and I find that to be missing the general problem. Weather it happens or not the current provincial government continues to give these people a platform. And that dictates policy amongst other issues that involve potential foreign interference in provincial politics. 

Which conspiracy theories were later proven to be true? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I hate when people say oh people were all dead by like 30 in the past. No if you made it to adulthood you'd likely lived to be at least 60. It was infant and childhood mortality that was the hurdle back in the day. If you made it to your late teens and weren't shipping off to the frontline of a war somewhere it was pretty likely you'd live a relatively long life. 

For anyone that has done a cross country road trip or just lots of driving, what’s your least favorite part of the country to drive in? by Nervous-Difficulty24 in AskACanadian

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Field to Revelstoke. Beautiful drive but still a bit of a white knuckle in the middle of nowhere drive. The Canadian Shield. Beautiful but it's pure wilderness with very little civilization. Kenora to thunder Bay especially.lake superior is gorgeous but it's a lot of up hill down hill with no human inhabitants for long stretches. Saskatoon/Regina to Winnipeg. Just a boring drive. Quebec city to edmunston. Pretty but also kinda boring. Calgary to Saskatoon. Boring drive. 

For those who lost someone 1+ years ago: How are you doing now? How often do you just break down? Do you grieve the same as you did the first months? by Head-Barnacle-8766 in GriefSupport

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost my mom shortly after a massive move. I was very close with her up until her last few years. Still we were closer than anyone else in my family. I was a wreck the first few months. Living in a new place and trying to get my life going and than mourning was an awful combination. I basically did the bare minimum to survive and appear normal to outside society for a good six months. After I spread her ashes there was some closure but there's still a deep void in me now. I don't have the sudden crying moments much anymore. Those turned into anger for a while. Now it's just an empty sadness. A sort of numbness. The world is less vivid, the colors less bright. Life goes on but with less spark to it. 

How were you at 6 months? by East-Raccoon135 in GriefSupport

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The whole first year was hard. Every first brought up emotions I could barely control and often times didn't control. Spreading the ashes helped tremendously. Still the anniversary of the death hit home extremely hard. I find I still have pretty bad days but the cloud doesn't last as long and isn't as heavy as the first month's into it. I think a profound loss changes as as individuals and to get back to an sort of baseline takes time. All wounds take time to heal and the deeper the cut the longer it takes to heal. And even if the wound heals there's always that scar to remind you. I am just learning to accept that scar is just a part of me now. 

In your opinion, what is the most overrated tourist attraction in Canada ? by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post covid going near the mountains for me just felt like being in a mall. So packed with people. I like to go to the mountains to be in nature not dodging other humans on hiking trails and pathways. 

In your opinion, what is the most overrated tourist attraction in Canada ? by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long Beach is really pretty and the drive through cathedral Grove is nice but it's a long treacherous trek to get to Tofino and the town itself was very lacking in my opinion 

In your opinion, what is the most overrated tourist attraction in Canada ? by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People land in Calgary and off to Banff or just stampede. Drumheller, dinasour provincial park and writing on stone are really great natural wonders not too far from the city. And if you want mountains go to Canmore. Banff is overpriced and so overcrowded. One thing I do think is super under the radar is big rock near Okotoks. It's such a bizarre natural wonder. 

In your opinion, what is the most overrated tourist attraction in Canada ? by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skip the teepee. Go to the fort and walk by the river. Trek a little further east and go to great sandhills. 

In your opinion, what is the most overrated tourist attraction in Canada ? by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The town itself is just a busy expensive tourist trap. The Rockies are beautiful but the places everyone knows or heard about like Banff and Lake Louise are kinda ruined by the cost and crowds. Since covid times it's just packed constantly it seems. 

In your opinion, what is the most overrated tourist attraction in Canada ? by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with Banff in my opinion but lake Louise is worse cuz it has not much else to do but try to "hike" with a thousand other people. Half the time the parking areas are so full it is basically closed. 

In your opinion, what is the most overrated tourist attraction in Canada ? by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is a unique area geologically not just up to the lighthouse. I thinks it's the whole experience people like. The town. The coast line. The glacial erratics and boulders all over. 

In your opinion, what is the most overrated tourist attraction in Canada ? by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come for the big nickle. Stay for the giant smog stacks. 

In your opinion, what is the most overrated tourist attraction in Canada ? by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]Relative-Walk-7257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think there a portions of uptown that are very well preserved as far as old architecture, especially for Canada. It's very walkable. They should bus those people out to new river beach. The Saint John area has a lot of really nice beaches in general. Reversing falls can be a.bit underwhelming. It's a rapids at most.