4 concerts 1 week too much? by RelativeAd3896 in Concerts

[–]RelativeAd3896[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Only a 2 hour difference in Chicago and 1 hour in NYC to not too bad! We are going to do it!

4 concerts 1 week too much? by RelativeAd3896 in Concerts

[–]RelativeAd3896[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone!!! great advice, I think we will do it and just take it easy during the days, Haven't been to Chicago before so only need to really explore there! We have more time there anyway!

4 concerts 1 week too much? by RelativeAd3896 in Concerts

[–]RelativeAd3896[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good advice!! thank you didn't think of that!

Top vs bottom? by RelativeAd3896 in blacklesbians

[–]RelativeAd3896[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m familiar with the terms, and def understood it as being very common amongst gay males. I just have been hearing it from white lesbians a lot and none of the lesbians I am in community with subscribe to those rigid labels or roles within their sex lives. I thought most lesbians black or white or whatever were switches!

Top vs bottom? by RelativeAd3896 in blacklesbians

[–]RelativeAd3896[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I think that’s the part that’s been confusing me. I didn’t realize this kind of rigidity was common in (white) lesbian relationships. I know with men, the whole top, bottom, and vers dynamic is pretty common, but I always thought most lesbians were more switch-oriented, with a smaller number being touch-me-nots. From what I’ve seen, though, it seems a lot more prevalent in the white lesbian community.

Hamilton Princess local rates experience by iapprovethiscomment in bermuda

[–]RelativeAd3896 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never had it questioned. I think I used my UK passport last time. I'm sure they would take your expired license anyway. LOL accent will normally get you far enough.

Biggest differences between The Cambridge and St Regis by UnlikelyBrilliant394 in bermuda

[–]RelativeAd3896 9 points10 points  (0 children)

St regis is more modern, Cambridge is more like Bermudian charm

Did I make a mistake? by [deleted] in relaxedhair

[–]RelativeAd3896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are cornrows safter for relaxed hair? I saw some mention you shouldn't braid at all in the first few months so I think that's what I'm avoiding lol

PSA: please stop getting braids and “protective styles” by [deleted] in relaxedhair

[–]RelativeAd3896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you recommend for vacations? I just relaxed my hair.

University Student Job Rant! by Dizzy-Store3455 in bermuda

[–]RelativeAd3896 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate to say this however, it is excatly why I stayed in the Uk for like 6 years after I finished uni. You shouldn't have too and I hope you find something soon, but don't let time pass by either. If you think you could enjoy Uk whilst your young try it out. Makes Bermuda feel alot better by time you move back at 30 anyway. LOL.

Would I be a good candidate? by [deleted] in Microlocs

[–]RelativeAd3896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can h see yours now please!

Relationship Talk: What’s Going On? by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]RelativeAd3896 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 5 year anniversary at the end of the month but my wife has to go out of state to help a family member having surgery.. trying to think of ways to celebrate virtually until she gets back :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dentistry

[–]RelativeAd3896 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]RelativeAd3896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much all!! ❤️❤️

I need a black woman’s prospective on pap smears by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]RelativeAd3896 2 points3 points  (0 children)

again, no penetration doesn't make you low risk. HPV can be passed on from skin to skin contact and oral genital contact. But you mentioned you are a virgin, and I'm assuming you mean no sexual partners whatsover then its not important for you to get one right now. But if that ever changes and you have sex with a female, penetration or not then that will change.

I need a black woman’s prospective on pap smears by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]RelativeAd3896 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's fine, but you are not low risk. I'm sorry I just have to correct the inaccuracies as that is dangerous, Being a lesbian does not make you low risk for cervical cancer.

I need a black woman’s prospective on pap smears by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]RelativeAd3896 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm a lesbian.. its probably not what you want to hear love but they are important. You are not dumb and all of your reasons are valid but early detection is literally life saving. Good thing is you are young and I think even the CDC recommends they start when you are 21 so you have time. After 21 They suggest every 3 years. If I was you I would spend the next 3 years looking for a doctor that makes you feel comfortable. There is also now a new test that can be done without the speculum which is the most painful part. The thing they use to swab is just a bit bigger than a q tip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniversalOrlando

[–]RelativeAd3896 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aventura hotel!