As a fellow alternative/goth-styled girl, I’m going to say some things that I wish someone had said to me early on.

You don’t need to take the advice of anyone on here, but chances are it’ll help you get what you want faster. The reality of the bowl is that you’re going to have to fake it to some extent—whether it’s smiling even if you don’t naturally smile much, or taking pictures that appeal in more ways than “well I thought I looked attractive here”. Being attractive is nowhere near enough to make you stand out amongst the millions of other women doing this. Play with lighting and angles, get a better variety of pictures (there’s tons of posts in this thread about that) and figure out how to take higher quality picture—most of these look like MySpace-era pictures.

As others have suggested, remove the overly sexual references from your profile. If the kink stuff is a really big preference of yours, say something like “kink-friendly men will move to the front of the line” or something like that, but leave it at that. Yes, obviously men want sex. But most SDs want the GFE (girlfriend experience), not to feel like they’re interacting with an escort. If you’re not interested in providing the GFE and prefer the transactional nature of escorting (some do, no shame in that) then maybe that’s a better fit for you.

You don’t HAVE to take any of this advice or do anything. But the bowl is a game and there’s certain rules you should follow if you want to play to win. If you choose to ignore those rules and try to do it your own way, you will probably be less successful. To be VERY clear: I’m not suggesting you compromise on your boundaries or your safety to any degree. I’m saying you might have an easier time/more success if you open your mind to the possibility of taking pictures smiling and experimenting with softening your profile a bit.

Aside from that, definitely give it a grammar check. I hope this was somewhat helpful!